Love, Marriage, and Compatibility for Scorpio

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Traditional astrologers believe that Scorpio are most compatible with Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn, and Pisces, somewhat compatible with Taurus and Libra; and less compatible with Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aquarius, but what do the actual marriage and divorce statistics say?

Mathematician Gunter Sachs (1998) conducted a large-scale study of sun signs, encompassing nearly one million people in Switzerland, which found statistically significant results on a number of measures including marriage and divorce. Castille (2000) conducted a similar study in France using marriage statistics collected between 1976 and 1997, which included more than six million marriages. Findings from these studies are summarized below.

Marriage: Scorpio Men

The Sachs Study

Sachs found that Scorpio men marry Pisces women more often than those of any other sign and Geminis least often. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Scorpio men (* indicates that the result is statistically significant – in other words, too large to attribute to random chance):

    1. Pisces*
    2. Cancer
    3. Scorpio
    4. Capricorn
    5. Libra
    6. Aquarius
    7. Leo
    8. Virgo (same marriage rate as Sagittarius)
    9. Sagittarius
    10. Aries
    11. Taurus
    12. Gemini*

Seeing Pisces at the top of this list is unsurprising. Pisces and Scorpio are considered to be highly compatible. Both are deep, intuitive, sensitive water signs, but they also have complementary traits. Scorpios have the strength and stability required to provide a solid anchor for the somewhat anxious or chaotic Piscean temperament, and Pisces is sufficiently intriguing and creative to hold Scorpio’s interest. There is the potential for a profound connection between these two signs.

As for divorce, Sachs found that Scorpio men have an above-average rate of divorce with Taurus and Gemini women (there was no statistically significant result for the signs Scorpio men are least likely to divorce).

Scorpio and Gemini have very little in common. Scorpio is deep, brooding, intense, sensible, and private, whereas Gemini is sociable, open, impulsive, careless, and chatty. A typical Gemini will “pick at” Scorpio, attempting to extract information, while Scorpio stubbornly digs his heels in, refusing to be pressured into giving up his secrets. Also, Scorpios are serious by nature and rigid about commitments, whereas Geminis are laid back and easy going, prone to forgetfulness, lateness, and in some cases, not showing up at all, and Scorpio takes a dim view of imperfect reliability.

As for the higher-than-average divorce rate between Scorpio men and Taurus women, the problem may arise from the fact that both are stubborn and prone to jealousy, creating the potential for serious clashes.

However, if two people with incompatible sun signs have highly compatible rising or moon signs, differences will be reduced and compatibility will be much better.

The Castille Study

Castille found that Scorpio men in France are more likely to marry Scorpio women than those of any other sign. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Scorpio men (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):

    1. Scorpio*
    2. Libra
    3. Sagittarius
    4. Virgo
    5. Pisces
    6. Capricorn
    7. Gemini
    8. Cancer
    9. Leo
    10. Taurus
    11. Aquarius
    12. Aries

Seeing Scorpio at the top of the list is unsurprising because people of the same sun sign often have shared lifestyle preferences, attitudes, interests, or ways of relating.

Marriage: Scorpio Women

Sachs Study

Sachs found that Scorpio women marry Pisces men most often, and are less likely to marry Aries and Aquarius men. He also found that Scorpio women are least likely to divorce Gemini and Pisces men. As for whom they are most likely to divorce, there was no statistically significant result for any sign.

The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Scorpio women (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):

    1. Pisces*
    2. Taurus
    3. Virgo
    4. Scorpio
    5. Cancer
    6. Capricorn (Capricorn and Leo have the same marriage rate)
    7. Leo
    8. Gemini
    9. Sagittarius
    10. Libra
    11. Aries*
    12. Aquarius*

The higher-than-average rate of marriage between Scorpio and Pisces is an expected finding. Both can be extremely generous (even to the point of self-sacrifice) in love, and they often have hidden depths and a history of unusual experiences, which helps to maintain the interest of their partners. This match is typically characterized by a high level of physical attraction, compassion, and sensitivity to each other’s needs unless other elements in the partners’ natal zodiacs are far less compatible.

It’s also unsurprising that Scorpios are less inclined to marry Aries and Aquarius men. The Aries-Scorpio combination can trigger power struggles because both signs are dominant by nature and want to be in control at all times, and the Aquarian’s need for personal freedom can trigger Scorpio’s jealousy and possessiveness.

Why do Scorpio men and Gemini women have a below-average marriage rate while Scorpio women less often divorce Gemini men? This is a mystery, as there is little common ground between these two signs, but perhaps the differences keep things exciting in some pairings. Scorpios do enjoy a challenge and Geminis can grow bored if things get too settled, so if these two do get married, they may have above-average sticking power.

Castille Study

The Castille study found that Scorpio women marry Scorpio men most often and Leos least often. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Scorpio women (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):

    1. Scorpio*
    2. Gemini
    3. Cancer
    4. Pisces
    5. Virgo
    6. Libra
    7. Capricorn
    8. Aries
    9. Aquarius
    10. Sagittarius
    11. Taurus
    12. Leo*

As would be expected, Scorpio women gravitate to men of their own sign while Leo, considered one of the worst pairings for Scorpio, takes the last place on the list. These two strong-willed, dominant individuals who usually have little in common are bound to clash unless their ascendants or moons are in more mellow signs.

The Best Match for Scorpio

The best match for Scorpio appears to be s Pisces or another Scorpio, whereas Leo and Aries may be less auspicious matches in some cases. However, Scorpios who find themselves romantically entangled with one of the less compatible signs should not despair. Plenty of relationships and marriages between supposedly incompatible signs have lasted.

It’s important to keep in mind that these are statistical tendencies; this doesn’t mean that every romance between incompatible signs is doomed. For example, out of 6,498,320 marriages encompassing all possible sign combinations in the Castille study, there were 1,281 more marriages between Scorpio women and Scorpio men than would be expected if sun signs had no effect, whereas between Scorpio women and Leo men, there were 446 fewer marriages than would be expected if pairings were random. However, there still were many marriages between the supposedly least compatible signs.

Astrology is complex, and there is more to take into account than just sun signs. Two people with incompatible sun signs may have highly compatible rising signs or moon signs that can make the difference between a bad match and a good match with a bit of an “edge” that keeps things interesting.

There is an updated version of this article available here: Scorpio Marriage, Divorce, and Compatibility Studies

*The methodology of the Sachs study has been criticized and it remains controversial. I have found no critiques of the Castille study thus far.

Further Reading

To see personality and marriage profiles for all the sun signs, visit the main Astrological Compatibility page. For more astrology articles, see the new Astrology site: Love Astrology101


    • Bugler, C. (Ed.). (1992). The Complete Handbook of Astrology. Marshall Cavendish Ltd., Montreal, 1992.
    • Castille, D. (2000). “Sunny Day for a Wedding.” Les Cahiers du RAMS.
    • Sachs, G. (1998). The Astrology File: Scientific Proof of the Link Between Star Signs and Human Behavior. Orion Books Ltd., London.
    • Woolfolk, J.M. (2001). The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need. Madison Books, Lanham, MD.

106 thoughts on “Love, Marriage, and Compatibility for Scorpio”

        1. o ya 😀 I’m sag too.. and i’m not downgrading it.. just giving some friendly advice to think before u act.. I’hv been there 😉 I’m not saying this can’t be good ever.. but generally it is

        2. I’m dating a sagg, she is very random, moody but yes I love her and she loves me too. Trust me I’m having the best time. Our time together is full of fun, and valuable.
          I’m glad that I met her 11 years back and finally we are getting married in 2 years ❤️❤️

      1. Man dude I feel you in so many levels. I’m a Scorpio f who’s been on and off with my sag ex and it’s been the absolute worst mess. The feelings are all there but he can’t commit and I get jealous and insecure it’s just a mess. Liking a sag man as a Scorpio is just the worst

        1. Hey, there’s always a Scorp male, if things get lousy 4U…I’ma cynic, however, two pincers programmed 2strike, could mean we’d go out of our way 2B xxxtra careful which means the threat of annihilation would heighten arousal centers… translation? Slow it down & both parties have better orgasms, Lol stop making sense!

      2. Exactly lol I did when I was 16 & boy I did not like him, made me sick .made say to my self I don’t want nothing to do with any Sagittarius.

      3. Id have to agree, Sagittarius tends to be an absolutely awful pairing for a Scorpio. And this is coming from a Scorpio with strong Sagittarius influence in my birth chart.
        The only exceptions being Sagittarians with elements in their birth charts that are well matched with your own. Get your birth charts checked for a good love compatibility before diving in. Or you may deeply regret it.

        1. Why are sag such a bad match for scorpio why do people think we are so bad the Sagittarius sign

    1. I would say Pisces. I’m a Scorpio women who’s been with a Pisces man for a long time and it’s the best relationship Iv ever had! I can’t see myself with anyone else.

      1. A scorpio women, my two longest lasting & most meaningful relationships have been with Gemini men. Also, both were/ have been extremely trying. I have Sagittarius rising and moon…exhausting when it comes to love life bc I’m attracted to men that aren’t compatible with my sun sign. Virgos are generally too depressed and critical. Pisces are so soft that It’s difficult for me to see their masculinity & strength. I need someone strong and sensitive. And cancers are so emotional and moody that I just can’t. I need someone strong, positive, ambitious, but doesn’t try to dominate me. It’s hard to find.

        1. Me too I am Nov scorpio, married to July cancer.. now moving forward with best part is he was my best friend for 10+yrs

          1. Oh no my ex roommate and best friend is a cancer and we just got back in touch and we have always loved each other and I want us to workout we are older a kids growing up we have such a great bond I don’t want it to fade.

      2. I’m a scorpio w who has had the worst relationships with pieces and cancer men (my most compatible signs supposedly) so bad I will not date either one again ever.. but I’m an Oct scorpio so I think that matters too. Best for me is Aries, Aquarius and Leo..

    2. For me (a Scorpio woman), its a Taurus. I love how grounded and level headed they are as I am too (but they are a little more than I am hah). They’re consistent and not super emotional and fragile. They balance out my more emotional side. A Taurus will actually be there for you through thick and thin and won’t play any dumb power games. (Just in my experience with multiple Taurus men)

  1. My longest relationship was with a Pisces man but my favorite relationship (and second longest ) was with a Taurus man. I still have some contact with the Pisces because we have a daughter together. One day, many years after we broke up, he consoled me during an argument I was having with our daughter. It was just sweet of him to do that and soothing at the right time so I remembered what drew me to him, in the beginning.

  2. I’m I taurean, and I’ve dated a scorpion and it was just breath taken from the beginning until when, we just stop talking. Don’t know what happen. But I don’t call and he doesn’t call me. So it was fun and interesting while it lasted. I did fall in love with him although he doesn’t know. So I’m dealing with his disappearance. And hopes to never date a scorpion again.

    1. Well as a Scorpio girl I think he ignored you because you ignored him so it was like a revenge but if you paid much attention to him he wouldn’t have done that I guess

    2. We don’t chase. If we become ignored…unless you have been vulnerable with us…we will take it as a slight because we communicate physically. We will move on because we feel that showing our cards any further will put is in danger.

      The best friendship / relationships ive ever had were with Leo and a Gemin women..because of Honesty and trust and friendship were established 1st..that’s when a Leo or Gemini start to admire you…once they figure out who you are and what you stand for. I Had an amazing intimate and sexual relationship with two Leos and a Gemini….I gave both the freedom to be who they are and ignored my instincts to smother them. There was a great deal of honesty and vulnerability between us and once Leo or Gemini is comfortable enough to cry and fall apart around you, as a scorpio man, it made me fall so deep in love with them…The relationships did not work because of circumstances in life out of our control…but the love is still there and I am tremendous friends with these women to this day. If you can move beyond their independent nature and
      support their need for freedom and expression…and be honest…a Leo or Gemini woman makes an extremely loyal and dedicated partner. You will argue and disagree but your differences will keep it interesting and compliment each other.

      Next to another Scorpio woman, The best sexual relationship ive ever had was with both the Leos…they are almost as insatiable as I am, However, what separates them from the scorpion women who are several notches above is that, although they are extremely passionate and driven in bed….they do not communicate their love through sex like we do. They love being admired and they love it when you look at their bodies and they want you to get off on that. One Leo in particular was absolutely stunning…but my admiration of her beauty was not in bed…it was in every day things…sunlight through the window on her face etc….she needs lights on….i dont mind lights on but for a scorpio, its not necessary….we FEEL. As long as there is eye contact and skin on skin, we are good….i never had to dirty talk a scorpio…infact, it might go on for 4 or more hours without any words. The Gemini I was with liked to be vague and naughty…she would send hidden signals for me like a bread crumb trail….she liked the feeling of being naughty…she liked me telling her play bay play what I was going to do to her…it was a alot of fun and fulfilling but it meant two different things to each of us

      A leo…they like half hour sessions with cuddling and TV and food in between. They might want it 5 times per day but they dont want it to go all night….they are most likely to eat too maby breadsticks and pass out…HOWEVER..they are most likely to let you wake you with a sexual act at 3 or 4 am once they come out their carb induced coma….They LOVE it when you talk crap to them in bed…they dont like vulgarity like a Cancer woman does..and they dont need it to go on and on forever. I dated one scorpio female who I still consider my soulmate who we literally made love until we both passed out…we woke up and started going again…but it wasnt about the sex….we were talking to each other without words…devouring one another.

      Taurus being an honerable mention because once they love you…they are in it ride or die, just like we are….we just cant stay around each other and expect to get along. Taurus is very passionate in bed..very intimate…but afterward…it back to doing their own thing…whatever mission is at hand.

      Sags and Virgos make the best platonic friends….maybe some benefits in there but, a Sag is a force into herself. Some of the best intellectual conversations ive had were with a sag…but we both knew our place with one another and knew that if the other struck a blow it would become a nuclear winter. I always thought a relationship ship later in life with a sag who was maybe 10 or 15 years younger would be a good match.

      Virgos are really intelligent and open minded and fun….but they are too changable and shallow in the areas that scorpio tends to live in the deep end on.

      1. Lol i as i scorpio male, i agree that i am super attracted to women who can open up about their emotions and like cry in front of me. it’s so sweet. the girls i met: gemini and capri, were very seirous and didn’t really express emotions. the gemini girl was too fickle and childish. my jalousy kept triggering and she makes a lot of unnecessary drama. capri girl understood me well and we had gone through same stuff. good emotional understanding between us – a whole lot of kindness ! – but she is kinda dumb so it didn’t work out. full at heart, empty at head. Now i wanna try a pisces woman if i can find her. You have any advice for me as a scorp male?

        1. I have a question I have been patient with a Scorpio male and he is so arrogant and he holds back goes slow but its been a whole year i give him space he can be so mean at times like throw things in my face I tried to move 9n because it wasn’t progressing is it my fault or are scorpio so emotional that if hurt they attack so confused its like this ping pong back and forth

          1. this was exactly my description of my relationship with a Scorpio male! like a “ping-pong”. Some actions made me question if he actually loved me (he tried to hurt me on purpose) the next minute he said “ily”. It took me a while to accept that I was being gaslighted. He used me for his purposes and he was arrogant enough to not see anything wrong in that. I don’t know if this is the case for you as well. I know that Scorpios like to “test” their partners sometimes. But no matter what, I would advise you to pay attention on how you feel and if the relationship makes you happy. I’m here to exchange minds whenever you need!

  3. I actually had my best relationship with a Sagittarius. We are still in a relationship and have lasted 3 years. I’m hoping it’s not going to end ^.^

    1. Be careful cause my dad is a sagi and he’s divorced, has 4 kids, has a new girlfriend, and is cheating with other multiple people. They are just prone to cheating.

      1. Exactly, im a M scorpio and got a sag friend that dates 4 girls simultaneously. When i told him it was wrong and he should stay committed, he told me the reason why i said that was cuz i am jealous of him. wtf….

    2. What’s your sign scorpio I am sag Woman I thunk its all about your preference who you like and click with regardless of there sign

  4. I’m a Scorpio woman and my best relationship I’ve ever had was with a Scorpio man. The relationship was very deep and we were in sync with one another. We had an open relationship which meant we could date other people but would still be with one another over weekends at some point. The problem with that arrangement was how deeply we fell Inlove with one another. Both wanted more with one another but our situations prohibits us from being together . The problem now is that 4 years ago we decided to just be friends. He got a girl pregnant and married her. I worked threw my feels as well as trying to understand his choices but everyday I still feel we could’ve tried harder to be together. We have the same friend circle so we see eachother so now and again. I’m also now married to someone else but there is always a “what if” that lies in the air. We don’t talk to eachother. I’m not sure why. I wish he would just talk to me so I will feel at peace. His also very shy just as I am so I will never know what his truely feeling. I do feel that we don’t need to talk due to loyalty and love for our spouses but the tension is very hard to get rid of. It makes me very uncomfortable and I can feel he feels u comfortable too, I also think maybe it’s because he knows we are both at a point if no return. My question is how do u forget someone that’s not suppose to be in your mind? How do u get rid of the feeling that u are suppose to actually be with that person but your situation made u end up in other paths. I’m not a fan of cheating and I love my spouse dearly but this man is making life very hard at the moment because his always there. Please keep in mind we never split over arguements or any Ill feelings towards one another. We just went our seperate ways because we both felt it was the best thing to do to avoid drama.

  5. I am a scorpio man..My marriage is set with a Gemini woman….Will it prove the biggest mistake of my life?

    1. I am married to a Gemini for lat 10 years and now I have realised that I was been used all along.Its Very easy to be fooled by their sweet talks. For her I have always been someone who satisfies her financial need nothing more. I don’t know about other Gemini but my wife would happily have physical relationship with me even though she hates me to the core and secretly planning to collect information to devorce me and collecting evidence to prove me a bad husband and a father. As a Scorpio I would never have a physical relationship with someone I hate but for Gemini it’s no big deal.
      I tried my best to make the relationship work but nothing makes her happy , she always complains tries to manipulate me. I trusted her completely gave her all my financial information bought apartment on her name , bought jewellery and now she wants all my money. The worst thing is I did not learn about her intentions till it was too late beacause of her sweet talks.
      My advice is end it while there is still time and never trust them on the face value.

    2. Am also Gemini but married scorpio, is not up to one and half year everyday is fight, now we are not living together

    1. I was with an Aries off and on for a decade. He was a narcissist and After a fight we had over his cheating.. he ghosted me and left me for someone else. I hope yours isnt as traumatizing as mine was. Overall I love Aries men.. just not the cheating n temper tantrums.

        1. I’m with Aries man, and its so hard they don’t talk much and moody. Also everything have to be their way. I’ve been in this relationship for about 4yrs, I dont know if i should keep go on with it.

          1. I’m an Aries man and I have read nearly all of this thread and I will say this. It isn’t about the zodiac signs, cusps, etc it is about how and where you were raised. My compatibility signs are supposed to be Leo, Gemini and Sagittarius. Sagittarius woman was a fraud, the Gemini cheated, the Leo doesn’t show interest so neither did I…I’ve also been with Taurus which I married and she cheated because she assumed I did, Virgo didn’t work because she was talking to someone else while we were in a serious relationship, but as for a Scorpio I’ve had encounters in the past with one. She cheated on her husband and boyfriend’s with me. No, I didn’t persuade her too have those sexual encounters with me. I also was with a Pisces woman and she was a liar from the start. Too secretive, accused me of cheating when all along it was her sneaking in fB messenger to talk to guys claiming she liked the attention but I gave her a son and helped her get back on her feet. If that isn’t a good man then I don’t know. Today 2020 I am talking to a Scorpio woman in the U.S and we share the same morals, some similar interests, both of us have been through similar relationships in the past, I’ve given her space as she does me, we enjoy conversations together etc. We shall see what happens.

  6. am a scorpio women, surprisingly i feel in love with a leo. We were more than just friends yet, i could never knew how does he feel for me. Actually he was never a stranger.He was mutual friend of hundred from my school. His simply friendly gesture hit me real hard after we had talked in social media. And i had never seen him in person i had no idea how does he even look. I never took interest on him but slowly i started realising my love for him. days went and late night chat became a routine. When everyone’s fast asleep we were the one wide awake with our phone glued to our face. At the beginning i thought that he liked me and it was him who took a step forward to move our friendship into something better. But we were never in a relationship. May be i have spent the best part of my life with him. After a couple of months he started behaving strangely, He just stopped replying my texts, started to ignoring me and saddest part was, it happened after a few days we first meet. And i never knew the reason. After that i could never love anyone neither of my compatible match helped.

    1. Wow I’m a scorpio woman same thing with my leo. It was great for the three months it lasted all the sudden he started acting kind of weird. I took the vibe as what it was and just broke it off. I’m not really sure where it went but it lasted about three months and it was really great

  7. I’m a Pisces woman and would to find a Scorpio man. Currently married to an Aries and it’s been so hard getting ready to leave I’ve had enough.

  8. aries-taurus cusp woman here! i blurted out “i love you” to a scorpion man. we’ve been friends for about a year now. we were working into a dating scene but he claimed he had a low sex drive so i’ve slept around with someone else a good 3 times because scorpio didn’t wanna have sex with me when or if i wanted. only a few choice moments would he meet half way and do it. . i tried to talk it out with him before i strayed away the first time. we only had sex exactly how he wanted when he wanted which wasn’t often enough for me and it wasn’t wild enough….passionate yes. did i shake…yes!!! but i guess i was being greedy. so he “friend zoned” me . past three months have been screwed. no sex. no dates. jus platonic stuff. past three weeks he’s been allowing me to rub his abs and lay close to him. last time we chilled he lay on top of me as we horse played (we are very physical during play time) lol. it’s just tons of fun together , deep convos, superficial convos, any topic! so yea i’m still his friend but …..i’ve changes the way i treat him. i don’t cook for him any longer, i don’t bring up sex, las person i’ve slept with was him , 3 months ago lol. and my mental and physical has been crashing so i found a scorpio-sagg cusp…..he is wonderful thus far and i think i’m ok with that. he squeezed my butt already jajajaja. i usually don’t accept that and i scold and slap guys for that. yea i get away with standing my ground!, but this time …..this man is a different breed and i hope this new dating scene is what i’ve been waiting for, i’ll take any and all thoughts and advice because i haven’t lost interest in my scorpio friend at all….i’m jus not going to wait to see if he’s taking it slow or he really keeping me in the friend zone, i told him i don’t want friends i don’t need friends that i want a man one day when i’m ready, until then, i do not want ANY NEW MALE FRIENDS. ESPECIALLY if we have had sexual relations!! if you become my friend as an adult you will eventually be my accomplice …my partner….with yoga , sunflower picking, Cooley High, painting, football, all that!! and eating especially eating!!!! mmmmm

    1. Based on the way you described yourself and your relationship with the Scorpio dude, my best guess is that you were sexually abused at some point in your life, and you should see a good therapist and get yourself sorted out internally before you’re even capable of having a healthy, long lasting relationship. It looks as though you may have only sought out this Scorpio man for the sexual reputation Scorpios have. Scorpios are worth a great deal more than sex. And were not stupid. He likely knows you’re only in it for the sex, and thus he sees you as such. If a Scorpio won’t commit to you, that’s all you need to know about how they feel about you. And the fact that you sleep around isn’t appealing to a Scorpio either. This guy will not commit to you. Hes going to look for someone he can have a faithful , meaningful relationship with. You will not remain in his life.

      1. Welp I’m a Leo women who dealt with a Scorpio man for about a couple months and we would hang out everyday and he would love to kiss me but wasn’t to touchy and wouldn’t commit he was okay with being friends and insisted he’s my Bestfriend he can’t just be my friend but I don’t kiss my friends and it bothered me cause I couldn’t find why he wouldn’t commit I know with Scorpio’s there secretive but he wasn’t secretive with me he was actually very vulnerable about his feelings about himself mad his past and would say things like we’re forever but forever what friends lol was that supposed to be enough. Idk I really cared about him and had strong feeling for him In those couple months of us being in our “friendship” but I felt tooken adavantage of cause I felt like he was just intentionally ignore all my feelings it was very obvious in my actions I’m not affectionate especially if there’s no commitment or reassurance that I cared for him I just feel embarrassed I ended up ghosting him kinda of I blocked him on all social media’s and ignored his call once to see if he would notice he did cause he only called once. I know that’s was childish but I only hurt my own feeling over exerting myself for someone for 6 months and all it took was one missed call as a attempt to reach out. And never reach out again to someone you called for everything I would understand if I was using him or had bad intentions but o literally prayed for this man the fist time we hung out for his safety I sat here and tried to help however I could with accomplishing his goals making him feel valued literally so patient with him I would never have waited that long for anyone else we had shared to many secrets for him to keep stringing me along like that with no intention just felt disregarded. It’s been two years and still think about that situation a lot I have ran into him a couple times since cause we run in the same circles and it’s a hi and bye but I have so much anger towards him and I hate that I feel that way cause I feel like I can’t even vocalize it ever. it will only further add to the embarrassment letting him know he had that much of an affect on me

  9. My first marriage fell apart as I am a strong scorpio and he was a Leo after 6 years, now married to an aquarius after 4 years of marriage but 7 years together not sure if it’s going to work out. People change is the real issue not sure if its cuz of the sign. I’m still very passionate for my husband but have a lot of doubts as far as his now. Aquatics is very difficult to read.

  10. I am a Scorpio Woman forever in love with my Capricorn man. He is a Scorpio Rising, and I am a Pisces Rising, so it definitely helps the connection.

    1. @ Rowena…am a Scorpio man fell inlove with a Scorpio woman who is a neighbour we connected the very first time we met she has a boyfriend and i 2 Have a girlfriend..we both know we want each other, the thing about the connection between scorpios is traumatizing u won’t be able to get I out of your mind, the problem is we a both sencetive to the damage we would create around us if we would give in the temptation……scorpios can c the future…so it’s difficult for us to participate in the creation of a disaster…

  11. Scorpio m married to cancer female and we fight like cats and dogs and she has cheated several times I’m ready to split

  12. I’m a Scorpio. Had a few people who wanted to get married. But I haven’t married, amd don’t want to unless I find the right person for me. I can easily see myself being 99 years old and never married. Though i hope that’s not the case, i will not marry unless it’s with the person I think is the right one.

  13. I’m so happy someone conducted these studies, words cannot express it. This is JUST the kind of info I’m looking for. Well done to these folks and to the writer of the article. There just isn’t enough of these kinds of studies to reference, so I do all these kinds of observations for myself.
    Most excellent.
    I Just wish they had included the rates of divorce as well, or number of years these pairings stayed married. I desperately want to know that information too.

    I’m hoping to marry a Cancer myself. But I am approached by Pisces and Aries more than any other signs. Aries is a terrible match. Core values do not even almost match, it’s a catastrophe.

    I have a deep love and appreciation for Cancer, but have yet to even date one. Numerous Cancer friends i love very much, however. I love male and female Cancers. Seriously, some of the best people on the planet. The ones I don’t like i just keep away from my life.
    Pisces I’m half and half on, adore half of them to bits, despise the other half, as they’re scum. Never dated one, haven’t yet met one I want to date, and generally can’t keep them as friends as theres almost no Pisces who isn’t interested in me romantically and with the way they act I just can’t keep them around as friends. They’re not good at taking no for an answer and I need the space to find the right person for me, so I just keep the Pisces away. I think it’s best for both parties. I have only 1 Pisces pal who doesn’t seem to be interested and we get along beautifully. Very dear friend of mine.

    For me personally, as friends, I get along best with Cancer, Pisces if we CAN be friends, Aries, and Taurus. And people with a strong Scorpio influence.

    For marriage, well, I have yet to know for sure, but I am hoping to find and marry the Cancerian thats right for me.

    1. I’m a female Leo and also dated a male Scorpio ,believe me when I say it turned out to be the most toxic relationship ever . It started so beautiful i honestly believed he was my soulmate everything was perfect at first we understood each other and i felt vulnerable to him . Time went by he started to act extremely jealous, possessive, insecure and controlling . He would deleted my pictures from Instagram , block other guys I couldn’t even go out with my friends. There’s definitely attraction between these 2 signs but when it comes to a relationship i don’t see it , it could work but it’ll be A hard Game . Scorpio males are very insecure and most cheat

  14. I am a Leo who married a Scorpio and dated two others. Worst decisions of my life! They all started brilliantly and then turned to hell. One relationship even became emotionally and verbally abusive towards the end and took therapy to get over.

    Scorpio and Leo are a terrible pairing for anything more than a short term fling. They are opposites in everything but a shared desire to dominate and control, which works out badly. One is outwardly expressive, loud, flirty, brutally honest and practical. The other is reserved, secretive, gets jealous easily, is hurt by Leos harsh words and approaches situations with emotion. Leos need attention, praise, adoration to feel loved. Scorpios don’t and they don’t understand the need to give out those things either. Leo is a big kid, can be immature and occasionally spoilt. Scorpio finds that type of behaviour tedious and disrespectful. Both are on best behaviour to begin with and may get on well. But later on in the relationship, all these differences cause friction and fights.

    With other signs, Leo and Scorpio get on brilliantly. It is no fault of their own. Certain types just don’t work well together and are explosive in the wrong way.

    1. I am a Scorpio. I have been engaged to two different Leo’s. I have a brother and mother who are Ascending Leo’s. I didn’t look into astrology until I found out that scorp- Leo relationships are the least compatible and I recognized a pattern. I was always surrounded by them
      And always felt indifferent until I met my cancerisn husband.

  15. I’m a Scorpio married to a Leo 25 years now. He’s 4 types of narcissism rolled into one. He needs/seeks lots of attention, praise and adoration. He has to have ALL power and control; it’s his way or no way. Being the deep, intense, sensible, practical, loyal Scorpion. I play his game to get the hell away from him. I admit Leo’s and Scorpions are *not* meant to be together. Leo’s are not worthy of a relationship w/a Scorpion.

  16. I am a scorpio.i was in a rlnshp with a sag.i loved how intelligent and caring he was en tht drew me closer to him.we dated for 2yrs en quit after him cheating 6 times.
    I realised he was a good person..but he just couldn’t stop cheating…so we became frnds

  17. I am a virgo and notice I can never get along with scorpions. I didnt go along with my scorpion wife as she was very cunning and nagging and after divorce she is taking revange from me by not letting me meet with my daughyers. She just wanna bring me down to my knees. I hate scorpions.

  18. Scorpio female with strong fire placements but a surprisingly calm demeanor…
    I usually attract Pisces more than any other sign and granted I’ve fallen for 2 in my life just because I love their dreamy outlook on life, however I just don’t enjoy the excess of detachment from reality. In my opinion they are great friends to have but just not strong enough to be in a relationship meant to push each other to their fullest potential.

    Can’t stand cancers or saggi’s (just based on my past experiences)
    But Gemini’s and Aquarian’s take First and Second place for worst …

    Dated a Scorpio for a few Months and honestly can’t really get him out of my head despite me cutting off all contact because of his Toxic Narcissistic energy. Unfortunately it is too true that the sex was one of the best ever, and the connection was 110% synced up. Which is why I probably won’t be able to for quite some time….

    I am dating a Capricorn now And can honestly see myself marrying him within just a month of seeing each other. Wild, i know. But If you want genuine affection, a hard-worker, loyalty, and someoneThat shares the same values with similar humor styles, get yourself a happy Cappy. <3

  19. Scorpio female with strong fire placements but a surprisingly calm demeanor…
    I usually attract Pisces more than any other sign and granted I’ve fallen for 2 in my life just because I love their dreamy outlook on life, however I just don’t enjoy the excess of detachment from reality. In my opinion they are great friends to have but just not strong enough to be in a relationship meant to push each other to their fullest potential.

    Can’t stand cancers or saggi’s (just based on my past experiences)
    But Gemini’s and Aquarian’s take First and Second place for worst …

    Dated a Scorpio for a few Months and honestly can’t really get him out of my head despite me cutting off all contact because of his Toxic Narcissistic energy. Unfortunately it is too true that the sex was one of the best ever, and the connection was 110% synced up. Which is why I probably won’t be able to for quite some time….

    I am dating a Capricorn now And can honestly see myself marrying him within just a month of seeing each other. Wild, i know. But If you want genuine romance& affection, a hard-worker, loyalty, and someoneThat shares the same values with similar humor styles, get yourself a happy Cappy. <3

    1. I’m a Leo woman who dated a male Scorpio , at the beginning perfect everything you ever wanted but later on it gets pretty toxic , Scorpios are controlling, possessive , jealous and insecure , didn’t mix well with my Leo self . I couldn’t do anything in this relationship

  20. I’m a Scorpio woman very happily married to an Aquarius man for 18 years after dating for 3 in college. According to most astrology resources, we’re not compatible at all, but we actually fit very well, balancing each other out. I’ve noticed signs have helpful aspects for people’s personalities, but honestly it’s not a science, because individual humans vary widely and natural tendencies are often very different because of life experiences and growth. I find sign blogs talking about how to MAKE any particular sign fall in love with you as a negative, because making someone fall in love means probably not being completely your true self, and eventually that gets old and then what happens to the relationship? Of course, being a Scorpio, of course I value honesty and real loyalty. LOL
    I’m surprised at the French study that says so many Scorpios get together and marry. I can’t imagine them lasting, because of so much intensity and tendency towards brooding. I certainly couldn’t be married to someone like me. I’m glad for my laid back Aquarius!

  21. I am a scorpio woman and im engaged to a gemini and he is the best thing ever in my life. Im happy and we mesh together reall well. Also im an introvert and hes an extrovert so think that helps as well.

  22. I’m a Scorpio F. and divorced with Pisces man years ago.
    Now I’m in love with another Pisces man. I don’t know why I always fall in love with Pisces.
    But I guess this piscesan doesn’t want a single mom with 3 kids.
    So I just walk away from him.

  23. I’m afraid everyone, including the author, is starting out with the mistaken notion that one’s romantic compatibility is dependent on one’s and one’s partner’s sun (birth) signs. Factors that matter are far more likely to be one’s own Descendant sign (House 7 – Partners and Relationships), the placement of one partner’s Venus and the other partner’s Mars (sexual compatibility), and to some extent the house and sign one’s Moon (needs) is in.

  24. A scorpio woman and I’m definitely steering off of an Aquarius man..they are aloof and unattached and it just crawls under my skin. I really like him but I guess I’ll just have to walk away. I need someone who doesn’t want to give me space and someone I can communicate with and that someone is definitely not an Aquarius….

  25. I am a October Scorpio.
    Dating a cancer man was my worse relationship. He was disrespectful, arrogant, too many expectations and very indirect. He put his female friends before me. He would rather spend time with them than me and if I questioned it he either walked away or called me jealous.
    He said he has deeper conversations with his friends than me! And he wanted me to have deep conversations with him 24/7! Horrible man. Used too many toxic words on me.

    Pisces guy was a nightmare too.

    Virgo was boring.

    Aries – nightmare.

    I think the most relaxing of it all was Capricorn and Taurus. Although Taurus guys move on easily. Capricorn guys are dedicated.

    I vote for Capricorn men and Scorpio men.

  26. Please help me my name is pooja I want to get married to a guy whom I wanted to get inclined to but he choose someone else over me now I want to move on.

  27. Sounds pretty accurate im a scorpio woman and I married a Gemini man been together 9 years hes my soulmate

  28. I’m a taurus married to a scorpio our love life is ups and downs.the man is very lazy and moody l don’t know what to do.l don’t love him anymore but I’m forcing myself to pretend like I’m happy while I’m not for the sake of the me what do I do.

  29. I’m a Scorpio and I’m in a strong relationship with a male Virgo. Literally my best friend. We always look after each other, relatively physical with each other, we LISTEN to each other, and we always try to make it work and be there for another. I truly believe we are very connected to each other, I feel like I am on cloud nine with him, I just want to grow old and raise children with him. I want to be by his side forever. I feel like he really understands me, and wants to know and be around me, which is perfect and really ideal. Yes, we are human, so we do have ups-and-downs, but that’s all they are. At the end of the day, we truly love each other and would do anything for each other. Ignore the rumours, Virgos are the best. <3

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