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By Shaya Weaver
Traditional astrologers believe that Aquarians are most compatible with Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, and Aquarius, and least compatible with Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, and Capricorn, but what do the actual marriage and divorce statistics say?
Mathematician Gunter Sachs (1998) conducted a large-scale study of sun signs, encompassing nearly one million people in Switzerland, which found statistically significant results on a number of measures including marriage and divorce. Castille (2000) conducted a similar study in France using marriage statistics collected between 1976 and 1997, which included more than six million marriages. Findings from these studies are summarized below.
Marriage: Aquarius Men
The Sachs Study
Sachs found that Aquarius men most often marry Aquarius women, and that they are less likely than average to marry Tauruses and Scorpios. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Aquarius men (* indicates that the result is statistically significant – in other words, too large to attribute to random chance):
- Aquarius*
- Leo
- Gemini
- Virgo
- Capricorn
- Pisces
- Sagittarius
- Aries
- Libra
- Cancer
- Scorpio*
- Taurus*
It’s no surprise to see Aquarius topping the list here. Two Aquarians are likely to have shared interests, tolerate one another’s quirks and idiosyncrasies, and give each another plenty of personal freedom, and although Aquarians can be naturally contrary because they enjoy the intellectual stimulation of a good debate, they rarely engage in damaging emotional arguments.
It’s also unsurprising to find that Aquarius men marry Taurus and Scorpio women less often than those of other signs. Tauruses and Scorpios are prone to jealousy, and Aquarians may find them too possessive.
As for divorce, Sachs found that Aquarius men part ways more frequently than average with Gemini and Cancer women, but are least likely to divorce Aries and Leo.
Cancer and Aquarius can be a challenging match because a typical Cancer requires sensitivity, emotional support, and relationship security, whereas a typical Aquarian is emotionally detached, independent by nature, and likely to find an escape route if he feels that his partner is too needy.
Gemini and Aquarius, both air signs, are thought to be a compatible match, so their higher-than-average divorce rate may be attributable to a lack of sticking power rather than incompatibility. Because both signs are impulsive, easily bored, change-seeking, and drawn to new people and situations, neither may push very hard for a commitment in some cases, and relationships may just dissolve naturally as one or both wander off in search of something new.
As for the matches that are more likely to stick, Aries and Aquarius both tend to be honest, generous, sociable, and inclined to try new things rather than sticking with routines, so they have a better-than-average likelihood of holding each other’s interest. And although Leo and Aquarius are supposedly incompatible, they do share some of the same traits that Aquarius shares with Aries, including extroversion, generosity, adventurousness, and forthrightness, which may be the foundation for some of the longer-lasting matches. Some Leo-Aquarius partners may also benefit from each other’s complementary traits, or find their differences interesting rather than stressful.
The Castille Study
Castille also found that Aquarius men are most likely to marry Aquarius women. However, in France, they are least less likely than average to marry Leos and Virgos. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Aquarius men (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):
- Aquarius*
- Taurus
- Cancer
- Pisces
- Sagittarius
- Capricorn
- Gemini
- Aries
- Libra
- Scorpio
- Leo*
- Virgo*
It’s no surprise that two Aquarians make it to the altar more often than any other Aquarius pairing, as they will probably have similar attitudes, lifestyle preferences, or ways of relating to the world.
Virgo’s position at the bottom of the list accords with traditional astrological beliefs about sun sign compatibility. Virgo and Aquarius have little in common. They are usually be drawn to different lifestyles and may have trouble relating to each other or meeting each other’s needs. These two signs also tend to irritate each other, as a typical Virgo is sensible, pragmatic, and careful, while Aquarius is risk taking and impractical. However, if their moon signs or rising signs are more compatible, this can be an interesting match.
As for Leo and Aquarius, there are many reasons why this pairing may be difficult. Leo is a sign of the heart and Aquarius a sign of the mind. Leos love material things, whereas Aquarius is drawn to ideas and the intangible aspects of life. Leos like to be the center of attention, but Aquarians tend to spread their social energies across diverse groups of people. Leos prefer a partner with a sense of style, and typical Aquarians are oblivious to fashion, except perhaps the occasional quirky fad. Leos are fiery and passionate, whereas Aquarians tend to be emotionally detached and easy going to the point where others may mistakenly believe they are cold and indifferent. However, the divorce statistics collected by Sachs indicate that this match may have above-average sticking power if these two actually make it to the altar, so it is possible that the differences keep their relationships lively and interesting if they make it to the marriage stage, or that some Leo-Aquarius pairs bond over the common ground of adventurousness, as both tend to seek excitement and new experiences rather than establishing safe routines.
Marriage: Aquarius Women
Sachs Study
Sachs found that Aquarius women marry Aquarius men most often, but have a below-average marriage rate with Leos, and that they are less likely to divorce Sagittarians than those of any other sign. As for who they are most inclined to divorce, there was no statistically significant result for any sign. Matches between Aquarius and Sagittarius may be favoured because neither is inclined toward possessiveness and both tend to be extroverted, so they are likely to share a good social life. Other shared traits include adventurousness, interest in social or political causes, and a natural rebelliousness or eccentricity that makes them less conventional than most people.
The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Aquarius women (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):
- Aquarius*
- Pisces
- Cancer
- Capricorn
- Sagittarius
- Scorpio
- Gemini
- Libra
- Taurus
- Aries
- Virgo
- Leo*
As expected, Aquarius tops the marriage list, while Leo takes the bottom slot. It may be particularly hard for Leo men to grant Aquarius women the freedom and independence they require because Leos tend to be possessive. Leos also like to protect and care for others and may become unhappy if they don’t feel needed.
Castille Study
Castille also found that Aquarian women are most likely to marry Aquarius men. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Aquarius women (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):
- Aquarius*
- Capricorn
- Sagittarius
- Cancer
- Leo
- Aries
- Pisces
- Gemini
- Taurus
- Libra
- Virgo
- Scorpio
The Best Match for Aquarius
The best match for Aquarius appears to be another Aquarius and perhaps Sagittarius. However, Aquarians who find themselves romantically entangled with one of the less compatible signs should not despair. Plenty of relationships and marriages between supposedly incompatible signs have lasted.
It’s important to keep in mind that these are statistical tendencies; this doesn’t mean that every romance between incompatible signs is doomed. For example, out of 6,498,320 marriages encompassing all possible sign combinations in the Castille study, there were 1,059 more marriages between Aquarius men and Aquarius women than would be expected if sun signs had no effect, whereas between Aquarius men and Virgo women, there were 529 fewer marriages than would be expected if pairings were random. However, there still were many marriages between the supposedly least compatible signs.
Astrology is complex, and there is more to take into account than just sun signs. Two people with incompatible sun signs may have highly compatible rising signs or moon signs that can make the difference between a bad match and a good match with a bit of an “edge” that keeps things interesting.
*The methodology of the Sachs study has been criticized and it remains controversial. I have found no critiques of the Castille study thus far.
Further Reading
For more on Aquarius, see the Aquarius Personality Profile. To see personality and marriage profiles for all the sun signs, visit the main Astrology page.
References:
- Bugler, C. (Ed.). (1992). The Complete Handbook of Astrology. Marshall Cavendish Ltd., Montreal, 1992.
- Castille, D. (2000). “Sunny Day for a Wedding.” Les Cahiers du RAMS.
- Sachs, G. (1998). The Astrology File: Scientific Proof of the Link Between Star Signs and Human Behavior. Orion Books Ltd., London.
- Woolfolk, J.M. (2001). The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need. Madison Books, Lanham, MD.
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I believe Castille’s stats are more reliable, in part because of the much larger sample size, and in part because from my own observation and celebrity examples, Aquarius men DO tend to marry Taurus women with surprising frequency, and the marriages also tend to last.
Can you direct me to this research. I am interested in this as I am a Taurus woman exploring relations with an Aquarius man. Thanks!
All the research is listed in the references at the end of this article. There is a link to the Castille study there (Sunny Day for a Wedding). The Sachs study appears in a book that is available for purchase on Amazon (The Astrology File).
How is that going as I am an Aquarius woman experiencing a relationship with a Virgo man
How has dating your Virgo man been? I am an Aquarius woman & I’ve just started dating a Virgo man.
I’m an Aquarius woman with a Virgo man. We’ve been together 10 years now and we’re happy. Quite honestly, I think it’s the differences in our traits that keeps us together. He can be an annoying perfectionist sometimes, but secretly I quite like it. I can be a bit impulsive which catches him off guard, but I think secretly he quite likes it, it keeps things alive
I’m an Aquarius woman and have been with my Virgo man for 6-1/2 years. We are happy but we definitely have to keep the lines of communication open (Virgo is not very communicative during conflict). Once you understand your Virgo man’s insatiable need for order and control you can work around that being a spontaneous water bearer.
After see these results I have Judged that any relationship can happen no matter what people say. some people just have to put in an effort. I’m aquarian And with some people I have to try harder and keep an open mind and the results always keep changing on this page and this is proof of that.
You are so true, my husband is an aquarius and i am a Taurus. We have been married for 13 years now, and still going strong.
So True my mom is a Virgo she’s so different from me and her husband a deluded Leo completely opposite to an Aquarius. No one better than an Aquarius for me.
True
Aquarius is the best. l love this site. just go on! l really enjoying it.
True
I like it
u trust
Yes, I’m an Aquarian madly in love with a younger, Taurus man. I’m about 25 years his senior, but I’m telling you, the love is so “Sizzling Hot” and directly on point, that it will make you melt, by talking about it!!
My Taurus guy is such an intellectual as I’am. He is also so practicle, and down to earth, as I’am!!
We of course are very different in a lot of ways, but we are also alike in a lot of ways!!
Believe me, opposites do attract beautifully, if two people are in love and are crazy about one another, the relationship will work and last, as long as both partners want it to!!! Believe me he is a stubborn, Taurus The Bull, and I’m an Aquarian, The Water-Bearer, but our mutual respect, and passionate love for one another, outweighs any other supposedly factors, that would try and make us incompatible!! We both bend, and give in to one another, because we know that we found something so “Special”, and we are not going to let nothing or no one, come between us, to let our love end!!!
I am a Aquarian woman I married a Taurus man yes he is stubborn yes he can be, and I will turn and walk away but we will never give up on each other and no one can come between us.
Thank you so much for this, I am an Aquarius young woman(23) married to a Taurus man (24) and we’ve been married for a year now. An sooo Much has happened in this one little year. We use to fight so much argue so much.. But he went away to the military so with the time that we’ve been apart make me fall deeper and deeper in love with him.. I use to not believe it when he would look into my eyes and tell me he loves me. I use to think that he is just using me. But I know now more than ever that He loves me and I love him. I don’t want anyone else but him..
Me too!
I also believe that the castilles stats is true…thanks
I’m an Aquarius and have had my issues being with a cancer man. I am stubborn and independent. He is protective and requires a lot more attention. I require my space which is something he doesn’t understand understand.
But he is wonderful. Spoils me. Which was hard for me to get used to. Very attentive. Too attentive at first. It scared me and I tried to make him run away. He refused and his persistent nature caused me to give in. Now I am deep in love. Thou I wish he would grant me more time for myself. Were thinking of getting married. Will we last?
Oh goodness, I’m Aquarius in love with my Cancerian boyfriend. His Venus is
in Leo and he’s incredibly attentive. I love his heart and his mind and want to spend the rest of my life with him
Probably not! Why? Because you asked such an asinine question?! If you really love him hunni and God joined you two together, nothing can separate you! You must believe in your love within your own heart. Can’t anyone predict rather or not your love will last, but you two! Be blessed and believe!!!
I’m an Aquarius woman I’m so in love with my Taurus babyfather but my only issues is he want to be around me 24/7. I love my space lol just want to know should I stay in this relationship
aww thats adorable! he’s a keeper!
I’m an Aquarius woman and my husband is also Aquarius. We have been married for 5 years, and have been together for 8 years. I have found my best friend,lover, teacher. Though we are both stubborn, we could not have asked for a better match. He understands me better than anyone. He gives me my space and I give him his. We can sit and talk about anything. When I am with him I never get bored. Our three gilrs are Gemini.
Wonderful!!!!
i am aquarius man and my girlfriend is also aquariun please help me how can i treat her and can i married with her so please help me
i am Aquarius MAn .. i intersted in leo woman Plz Tell Me About ……..
she may built you and uplift you like a king.. and at the same time she can destroy you just like that.. and belive me this you don’twant it
Just let her know you’re interested in her, us Leo girls don’t do subtlety! Also if you are an Aqua chances are she likes you a lot anyway, Leos love aquarians. Just be direct, honest and never play mind games. Let her know you like her more than anyone else.
Trying to land an aquarian guy myself, but a damn possessive scorpio has got him atm, I’m just sitting back and waiting for the **$! to hit the fan, and then he’s mine. We Leos always get what we want!
Aquarius in love with Aries. Good lord help me.
LMHO…Katie, caan you elaborate on your remark, “Aquarius in love with Aries. Good lord help me.” I am in love with a younger Aries woman and I am an Aquarian.
In an aquarian woman dating a Aries man
So far a lil bit of doubts
I feel the same way hun. I am living with an aries guy and he is a child. That’s the only way to put it. You either accept that or walk away. He will never change.
Good luck
Aquarius woman married 34 wild bumpy interesting and adventure filled years to Aries man
Pls am an aquarius, dating an older leo, she is madly inlove with me, but my lifestyle is really different from hers, she likes to gist with me a lot, and I love my space of being alone and quiet, am scared cos we are planning on getting married, I need your advice pls
Run!
Sorry to say, but I agree with Herb, my situation was the same and I did it, I’m now getting divorced… No more Leos’s period…
I’m taurus woman and he is an Aquarius man, we’re both married but the attraction is mutual, and there is a crazy chemistry between us.
I’m an Aquarius female (28) and I was with a Taurus (30) male for almost 11 years on and off, actually married him at 23 and got divorced, extremely possessive, jealous and he cared too much what everyone thought. I literally felt like I was put in a cage and there was no escape until I just realized how miserable I was and walked away from him. Oh and they’re very manipulative si watch out. Personally I do not like or get along with taurus and it’s not just my ex, even the women. I’ve been dating a Capricorn (42) for over a year now and I couldn’t have found a better human being. He’s laid back and allows me to just be myself without judging me and he is my best friend, lover, teacher and everything else you can ask for. Mh best friend is a Capricorn as well and thank gd we have never fought once in our lives and we grew up together. There is just a mutual love, respect, and trust between Aquarius and capricorns from my experience.
Aquarius woman dated Taurus man for 8 years. He started off lying, then cheating, then stealing. Oh and did I mention he tried to kill me 5 times. Doesn’t give a damn bout our 2 boys but pretends he does. Lazy and dirty as hell. Obviously this isn’t all Taureans but years ago b4 my ex I was warned by co-worker to not ever date one bc about half are lazy. I didn’t listen.smh
I can give input on Aquarius female with Leo man. It’s attractive initially to feel a Leo man’s need to explore and roam. That can turn ugly fast, because Leo men–especially emotionally unhealthy ones–prefer their “lioness” stay at home while he roams the field. It can become suffocating. Leo’s will settle down for one female–but another negative trait is some Leo men have extreme difficulty 2ith an Aquarius’ need to love and include others in their life, such as kids or platonic male friends. Many Leos, however, never get over the constant drive to prowl & seek out better mates. An Aquarius finds that double standard intolerable. So an emotionally healthy Leo man who knows to curb his negative tendencies may be fine 28th an Aquarius female. But I can’t say I would get involved with one again. Btw–had the same possessive qualities from female Leo friends.
Completely different for me, I’m an Aquarius woman and I hate Taurus men and woman, it’s just a thing to me xD
I am a aquarius woman and I am dating Capricorn man and we been together for 7 years and we just reached I would say 1 of our worst times, it seems like we argue all day but I love him, he’s very protective and such a good provider, he’s trys to take away my independecy and I hate that, i’m a aquarius and we love to be independent.
So Aquarius and capricorn can actually work. Cos ive been told that they can’t
well this marcy again and we just reach 1 of our rockiest times in our relationship, I love him, but he don’t communicate with me and I recently found out that he was cheating on me, we are suppose to get married 10-18-18, I believe that if we really want each other, it takes a lot of work, that we both have to be willing to put in
Really? You’re going to marry someone you know was cheating on you? You think you can “work” on him to make him change? Sorry to say this but if you marry him you are a bit of a martyr, masochist, or unbelievably naive. The only “work” he is putting in is on another girls booty. Grow up and smell the roses. See a counselor to find out why your self esteem is so low that you choose to marry a guy you caught cheating. Or maybe you’re the kind of girl who likes to play the cat and mouse game of “see if you can catch him cheating.” Also a sick game.
Hi Sian,
The Aquarian and Capricorn match does NOT work. I was married to 2 of them and it was a waste of time.
I’m an Aquarian woman with a Capricorn man and it only works on paper. It’s empty. Do Capricorns even know how to show love? No passion and I do not feel as though he loves me. I get ALL the freedom I want because he shows little to no care for me. He provides and that’s all that important to him it seems. I want someone to love me.
Im a Aquarius woman who has started dating a gemini man r sexual compatiable
I’m an Aquarius man with Libra rising and my most serious relationships have been with Gemini’s. Great match if you want never ending adventure. Just have to be aware that gems can be flighty. But it’s all part of the fun!
I am an Aquarius female. I have had two marriages both Aquarius. I was never into astrology until recently single and investigating personality traits of a man I was madly in love with, a Gemini. Wooo. Is all I can say. And the two marriages,both failed due to addiction. Something I read Aquarius is in danger of, I never knew that either. I myself do not think I have any type of addiction personality however, I think of substance abuse when I say that . Perhaps I do have others like shopping, cleaning, which is nkt bad but still considered addictions!! Anyways, both men to this day say they love me. The marriages were great, close best friends, we have each other space, understood each other. Life events such as one’s addiction led me to leave and the was in the military and came back with injuries and PTSD so bad again became addicted to substance and life was too dangerous for me to stay with a child in the house. So, my opening up about all of that to say this research and review of my sign could not be any more accurate. I have stopped seeing the Gemini, too many sides to his personality and too many lies being told. I can’t handle dishonesty. He loves me but, believes it is ok not to be honest. And now again I find myself talking to an Aquarious. Perhaps thais will go somewhere and that is the sign i am drawn to afterall. Honesty and a free spirit are something we Aquarius desire. lefs just hope he has no addiction issues!!! Thanks for the research.
I am Aquarius woman dating an Aquarius man…. he somehow keeps me interested though he is wwwaaayyyy more boring in a sense. I am the fireworks in our relationship. He is the more romantic one. As an Aqua, he understands the needs of romance in an Aqua’s life and the sex. Other than that I get to prance around and take on the world and he is my biggest supporter. From household task to dealing with my crazy friends and family, he doesn’t miss a beat. We have brightened up each other’s world. We never actually say we love one another but deep down we know. We tackle everything as a team and I absolutely adore it. His strength, his character, his honesty, his loyalty has been everything I could dream of. Of course it’s simple for me to reciprocate because I am an Aqua and understand him effortlessly. We agree to disagree. We both like to be right so we challenged each other to prove each other right or wrong which is quite fun. We also respect each other’s expertise.
I’m a 34 yr old Aquarius woman who has been dating a 32 yr old Sagittarius man. All I know is that I fell hard. We get along so well! I’ve never dated anyone younger than me but he’s a good catch. Hard worker, amazing father and is so sweet with me. He says he wants to take things slow and he’s set in his ways. I don’t know what that means. Basically, it’s been a little over 2 months and this past week has got me confused. I also need him to try a little harder to make plans with me. I shouldn’t always be the one to send the first text. I’m thinking I just need to take a couple steps back and see what happens and hopefully he notices and steps up his game.
I’m a leo man, I just madly Love an Aquarius Woman.
If it’s needed, I’m ready to change my sun sign, I’m ready to be that man a Aquarius Woman loves the most. It’s easy for me because love is heavenly true.
NiTri you sound very passionate! I hope it works out with your Aquarian!
They love space, freedom and great conversations! All the best 🙂
Did you say you found an Aquarius woman, or you want to find one? It’s a bit confusing the way you wrote it.
If you are looking for an Aquarius woman then I am here…ha ha.
What state do you live in and may I ask your age. Age some say is just a number, but to other people it may matter ALOT. I think it’s how we feel in our head, and I am young at heart. I am older than my mind tells me I am.
SO, you can replay if you aren’t attached…You wrote this in Dec. of 2017 and this is Feb. of 2018, so you may have someone by now. I am NOT married as he passes away in 2011.
With Sagittarius Men, you have to just let them Lead. They LOVE space but they also ❤️ so he will come around. Step back like you said and he’ll come runnybehind you if he really wants you!! They love the CHASE!
Good Luck!
I am Taurus woman and I am with a Aquarius man. I have a moon in Capricorn he has a moon in Leo. I am independent, a free spirit, and I do not have problems with jealousy.. my Aquarius Guy is VERY possessive and is very jealous. Very clingy. I am a bit more cold and aloof. He is loud and I am not. Go figure
I am a Aquarius man married to a Scorpio woman. We been together since high school. I always say we are not compatible. To be honest I don’t want someone like me. They say opposites attract. We been together for 36yrs married 19.. So much for this study
You just gave me hope. Scorpio woman that’s dealt with an Aquarius for 5yrs. Dated for 1yr went separate ways but he still is around. I say it’s not meant to be cuz the more we try the harder it seems. Maybe the timing is not right. Who knows.
Well that’s good to know I don’t usually go on these either my fiance is a Scorpio and as I am an Aquarius but I love him he’s showed me I’m beautiful inside and out and he smart works and helps me and makes me smile glad to know Aquarius and Scorpios can work out
I’m an Aquarius woman married to a Scorpio man. We have been together for 15 years. Everything they say about Scorpio’s is true! They will bite you but I will drown you! Lol The first few years were an adjustment of give and take and finding barriers. He grounds me and gives me space to be me but supports me in my adventures! I do the same for him! The support, love and understand of each other is the glue that keeps the bond stronge.
I am An Aquarian man and I married a Virgo for ten years before she cheated on me. She left because she found me unreasonable. I then Married a Scorpio, we have a great son between us who has recently got marrie dhimself. We have been married for 35 years and it has been a real blast. She left me 4 days before my birthday. Scorpios are convinced they are right even when they are wrong. However, their stubborness and inability to express their feelings can be exhasperating. 35 years has to count for something but for her it counts for nothing.
I’m aquarius women and happily married to an “aries”. N it’s a love marriage.
We were classfellows from 4th standards but as a couple we have been together from 9th standard and now almost 13years have passed
& i think he is the best partner for me, couldn’t find better than him
Can Aquarius and Capricorn actually work
NO! I am an Aquarius woman married to Capricorn man for 35 years. It’s the loneliest and emptiest! It’s a long story. But take my advice and RUN
I am a Gemini woman married to an Aquarius man. He is very quiet and I am loud and very loyal we both had to learn to trust each other. We have a wonderful marriage but I get bored very easily because he is so shy and I am very out going. Atnthe end of the day we balance each other out.
Looking 4 a man to share my life with. Would like to meet one from around 55 to around 75. Husband passed away. Been alone for almost 7 years now. Would like to meet another Aquarius, a Gemini or a Libra man. I live in West Virginia right now, but may move to the southern part of Virginia close to the N.C. border in April.
If you are not attached and want to exchange conversation that is a start. One step at a time usually works. Sometimes the ideas, and the chemistry may be super good, but conversation starts it and then people see how compatible they are and take it from there.
I am ready to meet a nice, friendly man, that likes conversation and knows how to respect, treat, and spoil a women. Your age and where you live is a start. I met a man and we communicated but he was still married, his wife is sick and he’s not sure how long she’s going to live, so I think he didn’t want to be left alone and lonely, so he was trying to find someone ahead of time. NO thank you. If you are NOT in a relationship, then I am interested, otherwise I am certainly NOT…
Hi Wandakate! Is this your real name? It sounds quite lovely.
Have you met a the man of your dreams? If not, we can get to know each other to see how things will turn out for us. It’s almost a year you dropped this on here and I am believing with fate that we can get along and know each other.
Best wishes and compliments of the season
Gary
Hi Wandakate! Is this your real name? It sounds quite interesting.
I am interested in knowing and meeting you if things work out for us as friends. I read all the requirements you have stated a man of your dream should possess. I am a single man too, I am 59 years old and I live in Newark, Nj.
Compliments of the season
Best wishes
Gary
I am an Aquarius women who was married to a Cancer man for 12 years. It was rough…the insecurities and the clingyness was too much for this fiercely independent chick. Need constant reassurance, would follow me around the house. Never felt so suffocated. Then 5 years ago I met an Aquarius man, our birthdays are 2 days apart. I couldn’t ask for more. We get along great…best buds..lovers and friends
Hi, I am a Leo woman… Married to an Aquarius man… He is unemotional and always needed his space.. He just loves false praises which I cannot do if it’s not true…we got divorced last month and I m 100% out of him… I m looking for my best match.. Which can be suitable to me… I m 33 years old… Very energetic and passionate about life
My Aquarius man is the opposite. He is very emotional and don’t mind to share his space. He prefers the truth and facts about everything. Does not like liars. Sorry to hear about your failed relationship. Good luck in finding a man that will satisfy you. There are no perfect man out there. There are always flaws in everyone. To make a relationship last, pray to God, if you believe.
Hi even I got divorce last month, am looking for best serious girl. If you are OK then email me, and my email id is ganeshkumar.0316@gmail.com
Am a Sagittarius who just wanted to know more about my compatibility with an Aquarius. This research is so insightful, thanks and God bless you.
I have been married to an Aquarius man for almost 18 years but been together for 24 years. He was my high- school sweet -heart. Still love him very much. I am a scorpio. Aquarius men, like my husband are more of a jealous type. I am the opposite of him on everything. Honestly, I don’t really believe in horoscope. My opinion, horoscope is just based on coincidence. It is God’s work and our effort and perseverance to make a relationship/marriage work.
the best reply really appreciate what you have said and horoscopes if you really wanna know search Vedic astrology that is the mother of astrology or if you still believe in western astrology please stop looking at sun sign look at other signs and house too those are the main things that decide your love life and sun sign doesn’t matter sometimes it only on how much degrees the sign is tilled.Western astrology says I am an Aquarius but when I been deeply I really find out I am a Leo in Vedic astrology and my love is like piseces because my venus is placed their.But for real in the end, zodiac only tells different shades of a person’s personality everyone is emotional at a point of time okay imagine if your dad you love the most dies no matter who you are Aquarius Sagittarius or cancer you will cry.When you will study your personality deeply you will get to know what your real zodiac is please research deeply don’t be so sure about your birth date zodiac.If cancer is emotional then why aren’t they crying all the time some of the most detached guy Nikola Tesla was cancer whereas the most attached guy was Thomas Edison he was an Aquarius and I am zodiacs are changing since their founding 2000 years they are shifting so I will say please go see Vedic astrology and study deeply to know who you really are.
This will really help you guys http://truezodiacsign.com/calculator peace out.
But I got diferennce result in http://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php
So which one more accurate ??
If you really wanna love someone please go an look out for same interest instead of being attracted cus attracted love will end.Best friends, passion in same things,pushing each other to achieve the things you want to have in life is love .I am just 17.I will always be happy with my wife we share the same intrests and if she push me to new limits that I love anything else is affection.let me tell you a story i came into astrology 1 year ago and i was depressed that my zodiac is aquarius soon I started behaving like an aquarius detached aloof and depressed.After soom times some one told me your scorpio is strong in you birth chart so I started behaving like scorpio after some times some one said i am a leo i became very happy as leo is a very amazing sign proud loving and generous.Then I been into vedic astrology and find out about charts houses planets.I was shocked that all of this was basically me.but then I saw if people born on my date were sucessfull or not I saw they were not i became depressed again then.I read bhagwat geeta holy bible and got answers to all my questions.I promised to erase this zodiac myth from my mind.So made a list of people who were sucessfull and who weren’t all born on same date some of them in the same year.Then I got the real trick of them being successful some of them were persistence patience smart work perseverance discipline forgiving people who hurt them just giving love not being aggressive controlling their temper and staying focused on one thing this was it i got my answer.I sucess and failiure is all about these things not zodiac.Zodiac is just different shades of your personality some people used to change their birthdates in old dates I have met some in their comes vedic astrology that also gives a brief information.So please just stop wasting time and believing in zodiac because what you so shall you become.I am changing my self I am taking the ,character of an Aries ,patience of Taurus ,passion of Gemini ,love of cancer ,zeal and pride of Leo ,discipline of Virgo ,nature of Libra ,emotions of a Scorpio ,knowledge and good luck of a Sagittarius with ,persistence of Capricorn, the creativity of an Aquarius and determination of a Pisces.Believe is a big thing guys don’t believe in being an Aquarius or Leo everything comes down to morals and how you were raised that’s all Just focus on your work you will be alone but some point of time you will find someone. Try philosophy and psychology instead of stupid astrology.Hope you all understand
So true! Thank you. I was married to an Aquarius man and the reason was physical attraction more than love. Now, after 21 years of marriage, we divorced. Now I don’t know who I want. Maybe I need to find and love myself first?!
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Single Aquarius just met a Capricorn and hoping he will give me space and a passionate sex life. Wondering if it can work because I’m drawn to Libra. My last relationship with a Libra I was so deeply in love and sex was the best I have ever experienced but he wouldn’t commit. Hoping the Capricorn won’t be too boring.and would like to be spoiled
Try it?
Capricorn is very boring in bed and Aquarius love the person to express every emotion in bed If I was with Capricorn and I am a Aquarius women I would cheat on them constantly. No one has to be as serious as them than they have hardly no intellectual side or sense of humor.
Im an aquarius woman that is currently in a relationship with a libra woman. I’ve been looking everywhere to find some sort of information about us but I unfortunately can’t seeing that we are a bisexual couple in a lesbian relationship. If anyone can help me understand this relationship more, dont be afraid to respond to this comment. I’m really curious though. If you are reading this have a really nice day!
I am an Aquarius woman and I’m in love with two men one a Gemini(also share a son together both of our first born child).. And a Pisces whom I was in a relationship with for 13 years( never married).. I love certain qualities of both men.. Feel I can be very laid back and be me with my Pisces man.. Yet feel more attracted and soulmate with my Gemini man.. If I could take what I love about each man n combine into one i would have the best man a woman could ask for or dream of… Please if anyone can share advice with me please do.. I need it badly
Sue …Capricorn is the best,- ben married to 1 for 45 years still in love
I m aquarius woman, I am deeply in love with pisces man.. How bright our future is?? Can you plzz tell
I am a 24 yr old Aquarius woman who loves 2 men 1 Aquarius one year and 1 day apart and was my first love! And the other cancer I’m engaged to him and we’ve been together for 6 years. The cancer man:overbearing,needy,disrespectful not really at first. Occasionally after I moved with my mom 800mi away! I don’t know what to do cancer IS sweet but not seeing eye 2 eye at all never truly understands my emotion when I tell him or reason with him there is 0 trust.
The aqua man was my first love,kiss, and nude photo! Reconnected when I consoled him about his divorce he texted me daily and we are like the exact same person but we still have differences likes/dislikes etc but not many at all! He gives me this crazy spark from shoulders to “toes” and I feel madly in love with him I’m going a little text happy and I’m being annoying. But he doesn’t see it that way he likes that I update him on my day even when He is not responding cuz of work etc. And cancer is just driving me insane explaining my emotions and trying to talk he takes everything so literally I want to explode he’s very emotional romantic and I love it but it can be overbearing and the aqua man doesn’t display emotions as often and I’m more the romantic he’s always been that way!
What do I do I’ve been engaged 5 months!
Please help me I’m 24ys old aqua girl idk what’s going on!
-mostly depressed or bummed on phone with cancer and also because I’m confused and make the wrong choice!
I am an Aquarius woman in love with a Virgo male. My ex was a Cancer, please stay away from Cancers. I don’t believe Aquarius is compatible with Cancer or Sag. Please avoid marriage. If he is overbearing now, it will only get worse when you marry. Please hold off on marriage. You must be sure. Are you in love with him or do you just want to be married? Cancer men do not make the Aquarius woman happy. Better as friends, not lovers.
The Aqua male just got out of a serious relationship, divorce is hard. He will not commit and if he doesn’t respond to texts then he doesn’t hold the same interest. Maybe due to the divorce. Do you live near the Aqua male? Don’t make any drastic moves, but I would definitely not Marry the Cancer. Look at all the red flags, pros and cons. If you leave the cancer man, date or use match.com or some website dedicated to people looking for marriages, serious relationships. Wish you luck. I think you will make the right decision.
Im a virgo women married to an Aquarius man and it’s very challenging it seems like he’s very detached and I’m speaking legal separation right now we’ve been together for 10 years I still don’t understand
I am aquarius female with a virgo man. We been together for 101/2 years. Our first seven years was the most exciting, loving and incredible years I’ve ever experienced. Our sex life was so wonderful, that he was the one in all my fantasies. Than our relationship took a turn for the worst. The next four years was totally the opposite from what we had. We broke up more than we could count. In the first seven years, I had honestly loved him so much. I told him,” when our lives end, I will wait for him in heaven or he will be there when I arrive in heaven. There is where we can and will be together forever. But in the next for years, all that we had built had fallen and crumbled to the ground. We tried to build back our relationship but couldn’t we miserably failed. And I gave up. We lost our happiness,and everything that came with it. I could now see the that we were not compatible for each other. As bad as things got to where my heart had fallen out of love. And felt nothing but pain and then it became numb. We had a connection invisible but real. I couldn’t explain it, and didn’t understand it. I had no hope left for this relationship. My thoughts and my words was was nothing but negative. But still this connection would not let us part. It felt like a chain holding on to our spirits and wouldn’t let go. Today was the day that I would set him free and let him fly back to Arizona where he should be. I sent him a text of why I was leaving and not coming back. I made it the final text. Preparing to move on with out him for sure. I have lived in this negative relationship with him for four years and knew I had enough. An hour or two have past from the time he received my message. Than out of nowhere a bright light had hit my thoughts in my head. I felt nothing but positive words flowing through. I heard every word in my head as I thought. I said to myself, I will tell him to confess and I will confess too. We will leave it behind and start everything new. We will discuss it tonight then leave it at that. We will pray to the lord to help us get through.. We will rest for the night and wait for tomorrow. Tomorrow is Sunday. A day people pray. We will vow to each other, to pray every Sunday, for healing and for help to restore this relationship. And have a new beginning. Today is special, it’s his birthday today! …… IT DON’T MATTER WHO YOU ARE WITH.. IF IT WAS MEANT TO BE. THEN IT IS WHAT IT IS. GOD HAS HIS WAY AND THATS ALL THAT IT MATTERS.
Hi Amy,
Did you end up choosing? I am an Aquarius and have always liked Aquarius men. I just broke up with mine after 9 years due to boredom. We just felt like best friends.
I’m an Aquarius dating an Aries man for a about a year. I love him so much he’s such a gentlemen and treats me like a queen. He understands my independence and need to go out with friends and be there for my friends and family. He makes me feel loved and always checks up on me. It can be a little overwhelming at times because of my unemotional nature I feel like I don’t know how to appreciate it. It takes me a minute to collect my emotions and tell him how I really feel. When we fight we get over it quickly and make up passionately. I had dated a Scorpio for 3 years and I thought we were soulmates but I ended up unhappy in the end because he was so possessive I couldn’t truly be myself. My Aries man makes me feel the sweet old fashioned love. His temper can be a little frustrating but I’m pretty patient to understand he doesn’t mean bad by it it’s just his personality and he will get over it soon. Good luck to everyone finding their dream guy/woman!
Aquarius (23) dating a cancer (32) , found out we are pregnant. The key is grounding yourself everyday , to know they have no control over your happiness.
Sin city?
How is the relationship between you and your Virgo man?
I read all comments but I only found yours .
I am an aquarius (28) woman and I have been in love with Virgo man almost 5 years he is same age with me. He never officially dated with me also we met when we were in University. I think I cant find a man better than him!
for me he was just too perfect !!!
Of course I had few relationships and there is a Aries man I know him from my high school he was asking me to date but I didn’t so we remain friends until now but he still loves me I just really cant love him he is too different than what I always wanted from a man. also he is too different from the virgo man.
and there were another aries, pisces, gemini, scorpio mens all just couldn’t better than Virgo man. I know its an opposite sign but I really hardly, deeply in love with him, no one cant replace Virgo. I want to be with him but he is too different from me.
Is there anyone who had dated or married or lived with a Virgo man?
I need few real life experience An Aquarius woman and Virgo man relationship?
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High school sweethearts! Aquarius woman with Virgo man for 27 years. He and I have had our ups and downs but we level each other out. I have space when i want it without questions. I live him and appreciate him everyday!
I am aquarius female with a virgo man. We been together for 101/2 years. Our first seven years was the most exciting, loving and incredible years I’ve ever experienced. Our sex life was so wonderful, that he was the one in all my fantasies. Than our relationship took a turn for the worst. The next four years was totally the opposite from what we had. We broke up more than we could count. In the first seven years, I had honestly loved him so much. I told him,” when our lives end, I will wait for him in heaven or he will be there when I arrive in heaven. There is where we can and will be together forever. But in the next for years, all that we had built had fallen and crumbled to the ground. We tried to build back our relationship but couldn’t we miserably failed. And I gave up. We lost our happiness,and everything that came with it. I could now see the that we were not compatible for each other. As bad as things got to where my heart had fallen out of love. And felt nothing but pain and then it became numb. We had a connection invisible but real. I couldn’t explain it, and didn’t understand it. I had no hope left for this relationship. My thoughts and my words was was nothing but negative. But still this connection would not let us part. It felt like a chain holding on to our spirits and wouldn’t let go. Today was the day that I would set him free and let him fly back to Arizona where he should be. I sent him a text of why I was leaving and not coming back. I made it the final text. Preparing to move on with out him for sure. I have lived in this negative relationship with him for four years and knew I had enough. An hour or two have past from the time he received my message. Than out of nowhere a bright light had hit my thoughts in my head. I felt nothing but positive words flowing through. I heard every word in my head as I thought. I said to myself, I will tell him to confess and I will confess too. We will leave it behind and start everything new. We will discuss it tonight then leave it at that. We will pray to the lord to help us get through.. We will rest for the night and wait for tomorrow. Tomorrow is Sunday. A day people pray. We will vow to each other, to pray every Sunday, for healing and for help to restore this relationship. And have a new beginning. Today is special, it’s his birthday today! …… IT DON’T MATTER WHO YOU ARE WITH.. IF IT WAS MEANT TO BE. THEN IT IS WHAT IT IS. GOD HAS HIS WAY AND THATS ALL THAT IT MATTERS.
Ok. This is interesting. I believe it 100%. But…
I am an Aquarian woman, always been drawn to Aquarian men like a fly to sh*t (pardon my French). Needless to say, I had a fair share of relationships with my fellow air sign.
One of them was locking me up in his flat (that he purchased for us to move in together when we marry on Italian Riviera) while going out to work, for hours on end. The worst thing to do to an Aquarius woman!
And another one was unreliable bully whom I had to kick out because it was between my sanity for my newborn baby or his shenanigans…
So, you guys, you never know.
But intimacy wise…air on air works fabulous.
Lol, I’m a Virgo with A LOT of air in my chart and still believe anyone who can stay married to an Aquarius man deserves a medal of valor and bravery. Their contrarian, stubborn, detached, needy, tit for tat personalities are just weird and they really don’t accord their partners the same flexibility they require. I personally would be okay if Aquarian men stayed away from me forever for the most part; well unless they’ve gone through therapy or I’ve looked at their birth chart for buffers. It’s no surprise they’d do better marrying other Aquarians because *sign of the cross* lol.
I enjoy Aquarius women though. They can be just as ‘know-it-all’ as their male counterparts, but their mental rapport is great and generally, in my experience, more open and self-aware after doing the work. I honestly know two with Pisceans and that connection does help with their detachment and honesty about their feelings. While pisceans are ‘feelings’ people, they can be less heavy/intense than Cancerians & Scorpios and still access the Aquarian’s cloaked subconscious as well as help them strengthen their emotional vocabulary.
This was interesting.
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I married a Virgo and it describes us to a T, I constantly question everything. He is black and white and I am gray! I try not to give many opinions or expect too much attention, sympathy or compassion. It’s not easy at all
I’m an Aquarius and was married to an Aquarius for 21 years, together 30 years, and had 4 children together. He was very abusive, a cheater, and a pathological liar! I didn’t understand how a man like that could treat the mother of his children that way. When we divorced 8 years ago, I found out recently while we were trying to make our marriage work, he got engaged to a much younger woman 2 years before i was blindsided with a divorce. She is 15 years his senior and she has a daughter a few years younger than our only baby daughter. He begged me to have another child when I was 36 years old and had 3 sons already. I agreed thinking he’ll be there to help raise her also. But he’s raising someone else’s daughter and not his own. What I’m saying is, no matter what sign you are, if you really love someone with your heart, then you will be happy. The heart wants what the heart loves. Thank you
Aquarius ♒️ female Aries ♈️ man married since age 18 for 36 years and three kids . I get my freedom Ahhhhhhh and he travels and provides Over achieve and has too much energy. He provides my ever wish, I don’t over ask because I’ll see stress in him. If I don’t want to trigger his providership, I just go do what I want to on my own sometimes without even telling him like travel or purchasing cars. He likes my Surprise life and I like his steady life. It works for me so I stay
I am an aquarius female n my husband is a scorpio. We’ve been together 20 years, I love him, great man, loyal, great father, hard worker. Always picks me up when I’m down. After I had my kids n felt like a whale, he always let me know i was beautiful n made me feel loved and wanted. We do have our ups and downs (who doesn’t?) But we’re always able to communicate and work thru it, he gives me my space n I give him his. He knows that I’ll take it like a champ, but when I have had enough, he knows to stay away because all hell will break loose lol. Maybe that’s why we’ve lasted, the conversations are great and the you know what is Awesome. I don’t know why, but I’ve always had great relationships with scorpios. Out of my 3 children Cancer, Scorpio, Aries, my scorpio boy is my fave n he’s a double scorpio ♀️.
I’m an Aquarius and my boyfriend is a Scorpio so I don’t believe that Scorpios are least likely to marry because he picks me up when I’m down and he always makes me feel better, he’s my everything and I’m never leaving
I’m a Capricorn and the guy who I’m in love with is aquarius I believe in my heart he’s my soul mate. Do you think we are compatible.
I’m a Capricorn and the guy I’m in love with is aquarius I believe that in my heart we are meant to be together.
im a aquarius man and my girlfriend a cancer women we been together for 13 years and everything was good until i got her pregnant i be wanting to show her the romance and communication but its like we only communicate thru sex i dont feel we have anything in common someone help with this situation
Hi – it’s amazing you’ve been able to stay with somebody for 13 yrs! You must have had something in common to get together at first. I mean, you don’t have sex on the first date, right? Nor in the first week after meeting. I’ve heard of people that are together for close to a year before engaging in sex. The longer you wait, the better. But yes, if after 13 yrs, you’re still turned on by each other – that is Great. A lot of people would like to be in your shoes.
Well, my suggestion is to find what you have in common, what brought you together in the first place? Write up what you both like i.e. music, movies, TV shows, types of outdoor activities, food, whatever – and start doing that. If you find stuff to talk about if you try. Talk about Politics or News of World. Plan things with family. Plan trips to far away places or the beach, or a big major city (tourist attraction), a lake, go boating. There’s a million things you can do & talk about. Good luck.
Your moon sign can be a much stronger influence than your sun sign. That has a lot to do with compatibility, making it last. In fact, it might be the tell tale sign of whether it will fly or not. You need to know your time of birth to see your astro placement details. That is your blueprint if not, your manual!
i’m a aquarius man currently married to a cancer woman. but since our marriage for the past 6 years, we have a boy of 6yrs of age together. it has been struggle, financial chaos and failures all through. I just don’t like her anymore, we dont even have sex anymore…I am currently thinking of divorce. Seems her spirit is not in tune with mine. But i recently fall in love with a Aries woman who loves me insanely and already ready to settle down with me… What is your thought about all this
Hi Michael, my thought is an Aquarius guy would rather stick to his marriage, than leave it for somebody else who is in love with him.
I am madly in love with a Aqua guy, he won’t leave who he is with though (no matter how badly she treats him). I think it’s a matter of a home to live (which is owned by both) in a very expensive metro area–where rents are quite high. Also, he has not gotten to know me better (finances & all) b/c he does not feel like taking the time to go out.
I’d love to be with him & would treat him like a King!
I’m a Cancer, but far different from your wife. I LOVE my guy insanely! – and would do anything for him.
I wish he were like you & would think of leaving the person he’s with.
Hi I an Aquarius in love with the Cancer Guy and we preparing our Wedding as we speak and we were together from School and we went separate ways we eventually find each other after 12 yrs and we’ve been together since and getting married soon, He is very sensitive but loving, love him to bits too
I am a Capricorn, very much in love with Aquarius. We have a difference, but we balance each other out.
Communication is key in the relationship, I find Aquarius to be more reluctant to express his feelings, whereas I would, as a Capricorn, prefer to talk things out and make things work.
Aquarius is a very stubborn person, but as am I, too. However, the communication side of things need to balance in order the relationship to work.
Capricorn is very much a hardworking, career minded person, whereas, sometimes Aquarius needs a push, which Capricorn can help to support that and encourage.
Capricorn is very organised, which Aquarius need someone like Capricorn to help each other out.
In bed, Capricorn and Aquarius have magnificent and amazing sex. It is all about communicating needs and wants. If one party is not appealed or is happy, one has to speak up and teach each other.
Loyalty is key.
We’ve been together for over 10 years and never been happier.
The more you indulge into thinking Capricorn and Aquarius cannot work, you are very much delusional. I have close friends that are also Aquarius.
Kind Regards,
Capricorn.
We have our*
I am a 39 year old Gemini Female and my husband is a 40 years old Aquarius and we’ve been married for 23 years
I am in a same sex relationship with same zodiac Aquarian any input she is 27 I am 28 we have a balancing relationship what I lack she has and vice versa
Hi, i’ve always had one problem with my horoscope. they never know where to put me . i was born on the upper crusp of june the 21st. i’m always torn between cancer or gemini. it’s frustrating. sometimes when i look into a magazine one will say im gemini and the other will say im a cancer. i be feeling like wtf! Anyways, i’ve been in a 3 year relationship with a aquarius man.it’s been a frustrating at times. i’m skeptical about horoscopes compatibilities!! sometimes i wonder if i should believe it. the real question i have is this really true?!?!
I was in a relationship with a cancer woman for 14 years , I’m an Aquarius- i loved her with all my heart- sadly after so many ups and downs we decided it wasn’t going to workout anymore. She’s sensitive and requires alot of emotional attention-her being bipolar was a huge weight on my back and i was too independent and focused alot on learning new things which was often to fast for her to keep up the difference came when i was interested in a brighter future and she wanted to start a family where we really weren’t in the right place to do and this was too heavy on her heart. We still talk and would hang out sometimes but as a couple we both couldn’t fulfill each others core needs. I’ve dated a leo and it was amazing 100% but i want to be sure of myself before I settle down currently dating a Scorpio now that story might be a short chapter if she don’t realize being that possessive and jealous is not normal.
I’m a Cancer woman in love with an Aquarius man. I met him at work (worked there for 2 & half mos, then left for a different position elsewhere, same company). I actually fell for him in my last 3 weeks there. Though the sparks flew once we realized we liked each (the guy could not take his eyes off of me every time he saw me). I felt the same. Had not been in love in years! He is everything I am looking for in a man. Though we’d had a few (less than 3 or 5 min) conversations in the 1st month & half I was there, once I felt he liked me, I started talking to him for longer periods. We got close, he confided in me, then the hugs started. One day he kissed me. Went absolutely Ga Ga for this guy! I started trying to get alone time with him. Anyway, since shortly after starting work there, I’ve know he is with another woman–though it may not work out. Seems she is losing interest in him. Even though he’d given me his personal email to stay in touch; a couple of days before I left, he told me he probably would not be seeing me upon me leaving. I feel I showed too much interest too soon. I may have scared him away. At my new job, I kept in touch with him via Instant Msg’er a few times (me, mainly writing), but his cube-mate is nice & continues to stay in touch with me. I don’t know sometimes if he’s having his cube-mate write to me to find out what I’m up to (?). I mean, how can a guy who appeared to be falling in love – all of a sudden not want to see me anymore. I have not made the effort to see him. It’s been months now. I’m in love with him, but feel he has to make the first move to want to see me. Is this typical of Aquarius men? – to play it cool, to with-hold their feelings, emotions? To perhaps get a work friend to find out what you’re doing? I know I made a lot of mistakes. Was too eager (he might have thought I was easy)- that I’m guy-crazy (which I’m not, have not been with a man in several years). Though, he started the chase, showed interest, I might have given in too soon—in professing I liked him. We’ve never gone out. This was mainly a strong physical attraction, with not much conversation & getting to know each other well. Our foundation was weak, I know. We didn’t get a chance to build a strong or solid friendship by talking more. Towards the end, he became a big flirt–in not showing me respect in wanting to know me better. I hate what has happened. I don’t know if I’ve lost him forever, or if one day (if I go by & see him), he might show he is still interested some. It’s been confusing b/c it felt so real–like he was starting to fall for me i.e. confiding in me, the way he’d look at me. But his actions these past months, mainly show a man who is not really interested. I’m just scared he won’t get back whatever feeling he had for me as time passes by. And I’m not ready to go see him yet (at work) till I look perfect (lose weight for 1 thing). Any Aquarius men out there who can give me their thoughts? Or any men out there who have met & treated a woman in a similar fashion? Any advice please? Thx.
Hi Dori,
I don’t know if you’ll get this message since you posted back in December, but what the hey I’ll give it a go. I’m an Aquarius male and I personally would be flattered if a woman I’d been showing an interest in was in pursuit of me, like you had said you were considering doing. I generally distance myself from people when I have a lot on my plate and I understand how that can be frustrating for others (friends, family, coworkers). I cannot be productive or focused when people are distracting me and sometimes I just have to take control of that sitch for the sake of my own sanity. You being a Cancer may already battle with that quality in an individual….perhaps perceiving it as cold or detached. Despite what I’ve heard about Aquarius’ I am very emotional and affectionate, but also maintain that whole logical thinking pattern, which, a lot of people seemingly, don’t care about. I don’t know where he is in his thought processes or if he’s at the point in his life where he might be ready to logically pursue a loving and heart felt attachment with somebody. I say logically because unless a person has some sort of mental issues, we should, at some point, be in pursuit of that connection with our God or another person. A Cancer, to me, embodies/defines that feeling or emotion. You guy’s are on a whole other plane with your emotions and that is beautiful. I would absolutely love to be with a Cancer to experience that, to learn to feel so deeply. I do feel deeply and I can get myself to tears fairly easily, but I would like to see what I’m missing. Enough about me, if he’s a cold Aquarius, which I’ve only heard about on the astrology sites and never experienced first hand, then I would say leave it alone and don’t get yourself all emotionally calloused up, but not before you confront him about your feelings. Aquarians can become really consumed with stuff, be it work or homelife or just life in general. It’s a curse and a blessing at the same time. So hard to shut our minds off! We feel a lot and it we tend to take to a more analytical place where it just snowballs and can become a ginormous waste of time. I think a Cancer can get the Aquarius out of that place and get us to be more concerned about love and sharing our hearts and sharing it with someone who can be trusted. I know I hold back in relationships when I observe crudeness or insensitivity. I already know they’re not capable of the emotional commitment and to be respectful of feelings and I immediately shut off. If my partner folds up in the clinch, when life’s dishing out turds and becomes a jerk….blam….I’m done or there better be some sincere apologies and NEVER happen again. So I guess, in that respect, I can be pretty cold, but I’ll never initiate that sort of behavior. I don’t know what else to say. I hope I covered some things you might be concerned about or shed some light on your sitch.
Take care sweety,
Steve
I’m an Aquarius woman currently in a relationship with a Scorpio man. He’s literally my best friend. I can talk to him about anything and be my complete self around him. When we’re good we’re so good but when we’re bad it’s a nightmare. I’m laid back and a kind of go with the flow type person. He’s a more possessive, everything has to be neat and perfect kind of guy. When things don’t go according to plan he gets upset, almost a feeling of disappointment. I love surprises. Tell him that all the time but he seems to not know what a surprise is. He always has to tell me what he’s going to do for me or get me before he does it. He’s very affectionate as am i. But lately we just can’t get along. Communication is a problem area for us both. One day we communicate fine and the next he expects me to be able to read his mind. He’s a passionate man, sometimes too passionate. He has a bad temper at times which doesn’t help when we get into arguments because my temper can be just as bad. It’s weird. We’re either completely in love with each other or we’re not speaking to one another for days. We’re in a constant stop and go honey moon phase. When it’s on go i can see myself being with him forever. I like my alone time, and i like spending time with my friends. But it seems i can’t do either without him being right there next to me. Don’t get me wrong, we have so much fun together, but i still very much value my me time. We’ve been together off and on for a good 6 years but for the last year or so we’ve decided that if we’re going to be together we’re going to be together, no breakups. We have so much growing to do together. It’s hard. I have my doubts. Literally the only thing keeping us together is that we love each other. Save stopping to remember why we fell in love in the first place can be a difficult task as well. I hope we can make it. But i don’t think we will.
Hi, I am a 32 y.o. Cancer and am dating a 43 y.o. Aquarius. We have known each other for over a decade. We met as co-workers and soon became friends, and then friends with benefits. For the longest, I expressed my feelings of wanting to commit and he always was honest and told me he wasn’t ready. We both have been involved with other people, I soon found someone and began a relationship with him, we got married and had a child and everything. My aquarian remained friends with me, always there for me, tender and caring, polite, great listener, overall good friend. He never came on to me, but I would come on to him, and he never stopped me. We always ended up messing around, but still being “friends”. Finally, he decided to introduce me to his children, some family, and friends. And started calling me his girlfriend. I have recently found the nerve to leave my husband, and I am now living with my aquarian for 6 months. I am ready to take it to the next level-marriage. We have a blended family already and get along nicely. I am just not trying to shack up forever. Is he ever going to ask me to marry him being that we have been basically “together” for 10+ years or should I just move on?
I am a Virgo, but love an Aquarius woman, she is everything I could wish for in a woman. Nothing could be more real for me even that our differences make things less complicated in all actuality because I like her traits & understand them & I think she likes mine and even says they are cute. It’s the differences that keep us interested in each other I think?
Maybe it’s rare, but it can be a spectacular thing if we see eye to eye.