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By Shaya Weaver
Traditional astrologers believe that Virgos are most compatible with Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, and Capricorn, and least compatible with Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius, and Pisces, but what do the actual marriage and divorce statistics say?
Mathematician Gunter Sachs (1998) conducted a large-scale study of sun signs, encompassing nearly one million people in Switzerland, which found statistically significant results on a number of measures including marriage and divorce. Castille (2000) conducted a similar study in France using marriage statistics collected between 1976 and 1997, which included more than six million marriages. Findings from these studies are summarized below.
Marriage: Virgo Men
The Sachs Study
In Switzerland, Virgo men marry Virgo women more often than those of any other sign, and divorce Aries at an above-average rate. There were no statistically significant results for the signs Virgo men are least likely to marry or divorce.
The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Virgo men (* indicates that the result is statistically significant – in other words, the effect was too large to attribute to random chance):
- Virgo*
- Scorpio
- Taurus
- Libra
- Sagittarius
- Capricorn (Capricorn and Cancer had the same marriage rate)
- Cancer
- Gemini
- Leo
- Aquarius
- Pisces
- Aries
As expected, Virgos pair up most frequently with other Virgos, which suggests that shared attitudes, interests, or lifestyle preferences bring them together.
It’s also unsurprising that Virgo men are more likely to divorce Aries women. Aries is an assertive (in some cases combative) sign, and a typical Aries seeks excitement and enjoys taking risks, while Virgo is inclined toward caution and practicality. Virgo may find Aries irresponsible, while Aries believes that Virgo is unnecessarily fussy or or cautious. Aries also tends to be passionate and expressive, whereas Virgo dislikes emotional scenes.
The Castille Study
Castille found that Virgo men are most likely to marry Virgo women and least likely to marry Aries women. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Virgo men (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):
- Virgo*
- Leo
- Libra
- Sagittarius
- Scorpio
- Cancer
- Taurus
- Capricorn
- Gemini
- Pisces
- Aquarius
- Aries*
Although Virgo and Aries may be less likely to make it to the altar because they tend to have very different lifestyle preferences and ways of interacting, if members of a Virgo-Aries pair have more compatible rising signs or moon signs, opposing tendencies will be minimized and compatibility will be much higher.
Marriage: Virgo Women
Sachs Study
Sachs found that Virgo women marry Virgo men most often, and that they are least likely to marry a Pisces (Virgo’s opposite sign). There were no statistically significant results for who Virgo women are most or least likely to divorce. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Virgo women (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):
- Virgo*
- Aquarius
- Cancer
- Leo
- Aries
- Capricorn
- Scorpio
- Taurus
- Sagittarius
- Libra
- Gemini
- Pisces*
Finding Pisces at the bottom of the list is expected, as these two signs have very different ways of relating to the world and to their partners. Virgo tends to be rational and emotionally detached, whereas Pisces experiences intense feelings that may be difficult for Virgo to deal with or even comprehend. Pisces might find Virgo cold, closed off, and unaffectionate, whereas Virgo may view Pisces as impractical, unrealistic, and naïve. However, if other elements in their natal zodiacs, such as their moon and rising signs, are more compatible, romantic prospects will be improved for this sun-sign pair.
Castille Study
The Castille study also found the highest rates of marriage between Virgo women and Virgo men. However, he also found that Virgo women in France are least likely to marry Aquarius men. The following is an overall ranking from most common to least common marriages with Virgo women (* indicates that the result is statistically significant):
- Virgo*
- Libra
- Leo
- Taurus
- Scorpio
- Cancer
- Pisces
- Gemini
- Aries
- Capricorn
- Sagittarius
- Aquarius*
Seeing Aquarius at the bottom of the list is unsurprising because there is great potential for conflict between these two signs. Aquarius is one of the least practical signs of the zodiac, which will aggravate Virgo, and Aquarians tend to be sociable whereas Virgos are often lone wolves who like their privacy (the exception to this rule is a Virgo with a more extroverted rising sign). To make matters worse, Aquarians have low boredom thresholds and may gravitate to impractical or even risky life choices to keep things interesting, whereas Virgos are usually far too sensible to upend their lives on a whim. However, there is some common ground as both signs tend to be progressive and intellectually oriented, so if their rising or moon signs are more compatible, this can be an interesting match.
The Best Match for Virgo
The best match for Virgos of either gender appears to be another Virgo, whereas Aries may be the most problematic match for Virgo men and Pisces or Aquarius for Virgo women. However, Virgos who find themselves romantically entangled with one of the less compatible signs should not despair. Plenty of relationships and marriages between supposedly incompatible signs have lasted.
It’s important to keep in mind that these are statistical tendencies; this doesn’t mean that every romance between incompatible signs is doomed. For example, out of 6,498,320 marriages encompassing all possible sign combinations in the Castille study, there were 972 more marriages between Virgo men and Virgo women than would be expected if sun signs had no effect, whereas between Virgo men and Aries women, there were 633 fewer marriages than would be expected if pairings were random. However, there still were many marriages between the supposedly least compatible signs.
Astrology is complex, and there is more to take into account than just sun signs. Two people with incompatible sun signs may have highly compatible rising signs or moon signs that can make the difference between a bad match and a good match with a bit of an “edge” that keeps things interesting.
*The methodology of the Sachs study has been criticized and it remains controversial. I have found no critiques of the Castille study thus far.
Further Reading
For more on Virgo, see the Virgo Personality Profile. To see personality and marriage profiles for all the sun signs, visit the main Astrology page.
References:
- Bugler, C. (Ed.). (1992). The Complete Handbook of Astrology. Marshall Cavendish Ltd., Montreal, 1992.
- Castille, D. (2000). “Sunny Day for a Wedding.” Les Cahiers du RAMS.
- Sachs, G. (1998). The Astrology File: Scientific Proof of the Link Between Star Signs and Human Behavior. Orion Books Ltd., London.
- Woolfolk, J.M. (2001). The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need. Madison Books, Lanham, MD.
Very very interesting because this quite true about me and the relationships i have had.
The best relationships I had were with a a Scorpio. We would have lasted if not for his PTSD.
I believe my soulmate was a Gemini. I will admit he ran me crazy with his lateness. I have never felt so loved than with him.
I Feel Like I’m In Love With A Gemini I Didn’t Know If It Was Possible
Same for me…
I myself are Gemini, and my fiance is virgo. Ive never falling in love so fast with a woman. These stats need to be updated. Gemini and virgo are changing the world
I agree I’m a Virgo and my husband is a Gemini and we are happily married.
my boyfriend is a gemini and i’m a virgo. compatibility is high..
I fall in love a Virgo woman we got along so well. we ended breaking up for a misunderstanding between us.by all means she the best woman I have had.
I’m a Gemini woman
Am just saying why are loving Sagittarius man so hard to get over.
Leo with zero doubt
I used to be in love with another virgo, then I was in love with an aquarius. I’m still friends with both of them but I currently have something going on with a cancer. Also, ecven though im a virgo, I’m quite interactive and not very productive lol.
I am a Virgo woman and I recently broke up with I a Capricorn man. It was a very bad break up. I still love him want him back and wonder if we can forgive and move forward or should I just let go … no cheating on my end but I’m not about him. Everything was all great with consistent love and affection but then 3 weeks ago it all stopped. He became distant always busy wouldn’t tell me that he loved me anymore so we end up getting into a huge fight cuz I was hurt and beg for an explanation and understanding but he was a total jerk and asshole about it and treated me like crap…
sad
I’m a Virgo man and honestly you probably need to check yourself. You sound quite clingy which is a sign of low self esteem.
You don’t sound clingy to me…you sound like you have standards and started to see a change that you were comfortable with; Completely Valid…you have right to question it. The issue I’m seeing is maturity. The way y’all handled the situation sounds immature.
I am a Virgo women, and with a Capricorn man. An issue I have with him is holding grudges and not communicating properly. So ♀️
Best wishes to you and yours!
*uncomfortable
i m a virgo man .. but same situation with capricorn woman.. u r right there
I have recetnly read a book Virgo Man Secrets by Anna Kovach and since then i understand much better my relationship with virgo.
Thanks for this article.
Good catch – thanks! I’ve fixed it. Taurus is fourth, Gemini in eighth place.
“Love,Marriage,Compatibility for virgo “I married a Leo in it has been very hard for twenty seven years ,I’m separated and going through divorce,
I married a Pisces I was married for 27 years and now we’re separated and getting a divorce as well.
Why?
I was married to a Leo and im a Virgo women so not really being clear and seeing that a Leo was my “warning” sign. I guess love has us blind sometimes.
Yes I agree, I’m a Virgo woman & my husband is a Leo we have been together 9 yrs on and off married for two & now we’re separated
I was married to Leo and he cheated all time we married for 25 years.
I’m married to a Leo and its been so hard together 7, married almost 5. This is the 3rd leo I’ve been with, the last 2 has been a very hard lesson to learn. With my Ex Leo trying to help me thru it. My leo is just so selfish.
Reason why it’s so hard you virgos cannot except people for who they are and go into all relationships trying to change people. You gise are drama kings and queens and severely argumentative and controlling. No matter how good someone is to you gise you create drama and always criticizing you do that more than complimenting. I don’t see how anyone can stay in long term relationships with such negative people. You all do no not know how to live in peace or communicate without arguing, especially if you don’t agree
LOL. Looks like you can’t accept Virgos for who they are. Who’s the judge mental one now?
Yeah I’m a male Virgo and I’m the opposite i don’t like to argue and i hate drama with a passion i have learned that all Virgos are different we are not all the same.. So are the way you stated but then you have the others like my self so, yeah sounds like you had a bad experience that’s all…
Truth be told we are loyal people once we give our hearts to them. Leo woman are bossy and think they know it all. FYI my girlfriends one but I love her for who she is. That’s love and vise versa.
Totally agree with your comment Leo Woman Latoya!
That’s not virgo that’s people in general. Dont blame us cause the last person left you and now I know why your negative. Coming on here batching people you have never met. Virgos are very loving people and most of the time we get walked on because we are to nice.So get your facts right!!
Your spelling is atrocious!
No, not all of us are like that. You’re only generalising towards the Virgos you’ve met. On behalf of them, I sincerely apologise for the pain we’ve caused, but not all of us are drama kings/queens. It seems like you’re the one who’s a drama queen here since you’re writing a comment like this, bashing against Virgos who haven’t done anything. I’m a Virgo myself, and I compliment people around me in admiration almost every day. How about that? Besides, do you expect us, Virgos, which are supposedly “aRgUmEnTaTiVe”, to just swallow this hate comment and move on? 😉
Virgos have many great personality traits, but sometimes, and over extortion of these astrological personality traits cause them to have a negative effect on the Virgo. These negative traits include the need to overanalyze situations and hold a very critical eye on themselves along with everyone else in their life. We do things the best way ever! And your ARGUMENTATIVE talking is really when shit gets us out…if you don’t match up u just dont, I’m sorry I can’t accept u like that…think u need a CHANGE and if you’re foolish we will present u drama so here comes the DRAMA QUEEN… another thing if your blind to your falts watch me CRITICIZE u..COMPLIMENT me I COMPLIMENT u fear enuff…ppl stays or need us because we’re one in a million. none like us… neither a leo as u. Idk where u found NEGATIVITY. #VIRGODRAMAQUEEN
of course a leo see’s mature conversation as argumentative. if it doesn’t concern the leo’s interest it doesn’t matter, right? since you added the criticism part, it’s “guys” not giys. But a leo is perfect and nothing can be upgraded or evolved. & that’s the number one conflict. Virgo’s are always trying to better themselves.
I’m a Gemini women I’m opposite of the Gemini twins cause I don’t act like they most Geminis.i am woman lesbian I fall in love with with a Virgo woman by all means yes Virgo are kind people gentle and caring.we got along with each other.we ended up breaking up over a miscommunication between us.i told the truth about everything cause she thought I was cheating on her she thought I was interested in someone else I said no.she lesbian married to a guy both families don’t agree with the marriage.we would talk about it then she say I need to processes this and need space I’m giving her that.
Winks I’m a Virgo woman… How about we know each other better?
Well I’m a Cancer/Leo cusp woman, and I came into this relationship with my Virgo man with an open heart and mind. I now sense there with be heartbreak coming soon. My heart that is. He is more distant, and no matter what I do, nothing seems to help us bond emotionally. He asked me my ring size, but idk if that’s because he saw the disappointment on my face. I really love him and know he loves me, but I can feel us drifting. ☹
Can you marry me, am seriously need a lady that is cancer. This is my WhatsApp number +2348034037874
Chanel I understand I tried to bond with mines too, yet he starved me in everyway measurable to keep me happy. He starved me sexually, mentally, and emotionally. It was extreme. Our sex life was almost nonexistent maybe once a month and we’re in our late 30’s. He also told me not to rub my feet on him yet, I keep my feet done and my appearance up something he does not do. Any how let me just add this a healthy sex life is important in any relationship. He wanted to control every aspect of my life on down to what I said. He tried to completely take over my house. I gave him an inch and he took a mile. He went overboard and when I spoke up he left eventually but came back but I don’t think for love. When he came back he completely stop doing anything around the house and never took the car to be washed or cleaned, yet he road in it and drove it. He chain smoked and ate and watch TV all the time these activities got far more attention than me. I took this man in with nothing but a bag of clothes and paid for his bus ticket to get to me. I took him to job interviews and took him back and forth to work. I cook for him and served him in bed and washed his clothes yet I had to ask him to pay Bill’s he continued to argue about paying. He wouldn’t even buy deodorant he was using mines and got mad when I said something about it. He would not even buy soap or tissue or tooth paste I had to buy it. He bought tissue and tooth paste once after we argued about him not contributing this way yet kept his what he enjoyed doing . The man barely showered and had the ardasity to try and speak bad about me to my mom. Also he told my mom and neice that when I have grandchildren that they could not visit like that yet he felt he had the right to argue with me or criticize me what a joke. I have my shit together he did not and had no room to speak on shit regarding me let alone criticize. He should have been grateful and showing nothing but appreciation. People can dish stuff out but can’t take it in even if it’s the truth about them. He made it a priority to remind me how I did nothing for him and to continue to find fault in me. Also, If I can’t talk to a man about what I don’t like or what’s bothering me or what I need without a screaming match i don’t need him. I’m not controlling nor do I think I know it all but I do have standards and I won’t compromise them for no one. Virgos definitely think they they know it all well he did he said I did because I did not agree with everything he said or do everything he wanted me to do his way. Virgos are a lot of work well he was but my energy game is not that strong. I’m drained and tired of trying. I gave all I could but nothing really was reciprocated unless we argued about it and still was not reciprocated very much. A leo is the most giving and loving and affectionate person in the world to to his or her lover we are far from selfish but if one base their perception of our character on us conforming to total control and criticism and extreme nitpicking ( all virgo qualities) you will never see our true value and you will for ever remain unhappy and unsatisfied with a leo. By the way I put him out today I’ve had it up to here with him. He will be buying his house and land alone without this loving leo lady that took care of him better than any woman he has ever been with he said it himself and also was talking marriage and I declined. The better I treated him the worse he got
Sorry to hear about this @leowoman, this is exactly what I am going through right know with an Aquarius. He’s 52 and I’m 42.. it should’ve been the other way around when it comes to maturity and being responsible but I guess not for this one. I have a very immature and irresponsible partner who thinks only of himself. We have one child and I have to literally notify the day before that he needs to bring her to school, never picks up his plate after any meals, he works part time ever since our child was born but never asked me how I am if I’m tired, asks me to pick up his soda when when works in a pharmacy inside a supermarket, puts my life and out kid’s life in danger because of road rage despite my begging him to be sensible enough to let it go whenever someone cuts him off in the road, yells at me like I’m dirt, accused me of cheating when he’s the one who has cheated on me, spends his money on weed, although he does pay for our child’s school, accused me of marrying him just to get an alien card despite the reality that I fought everyone in my family and turned my back on my friends who knew he was using me because I loved him so much! I was blinded and was sure in my heart that he loved me too but it turned out it was one sided
Virgo women are not drama queens but give us a reason to be and we will be. We are perfectionists and want order in our lives and you’ll be surprised that many of us are positive. We are goal driven and are very serious when it comes to relationships. We value discipline and what most people think to be a controlling behavior towards others is totally incorrect. It is our trait to want to always have a structure. You need to understand that our need for structure and discipline is an instinctive method to maintain our sanity and progress and productivity in life in the face of life’s many distractions.
We are very responsible, at least I know I am and most Virgos I know in a sense that when you’re with us everything is in place and that you won’t have anything to worry about because you know we will take care of it.
We are also called conductors and arrangers in life. We like to align and re align situation to see what will have the best results. Many people can misinterpret this as behaviors that box people in. Depending on how a Virgo is raised, this is a great characteristic in a way that you’ll always find we always analyze solutions and we’re always on top of everything but are also willing to work with other people granting that they are open to our ideas too and that they understand our traits and characteristics and are also open minded.
We give to you everything we have when we’re in love. We are committed individuals and will devote our whole
lives to you yo make everything work and love you till our last breaths.
Sadly, my current relationship is nowhere close to loving, understanding, committed and respectful.
I wish I didn’t let my heart rule over my heart. Not sure where I’m going with my Aquarius partner right now.
Please pray for me and wish me luck
I was in love with me.I for 5 years and then I met a Virgo man..Things changed.Virgo to Virgo relationship is better
Oh God. Marry another me??? Might be interesting dating one but two of me forever? That’s too much
My husband and I are both Virgos.
I married a virgo 40 yrs ago and im a female virgo. In the middle of a divorce. Virgo men and virgo women do not fit at all.
I beg to differ. Me and my husband married 25 years ago. We have 2 Beautiful girls and he is actually 5days older than I am. We Think speak and do the same things at the same time.it is amazing so long together since high school. Who would think this happens. Proud grandparents and all
Agreed..I’m a 10th September Virgo Woman I found the few Virgo men I’ve met to be sly and liars..I dated one and he cheated on me..I no longer gravitate to Virgo men ..I get on very well with Taurus and Capricorn men..Pisceas for me are very unstable and all over the place..Scorpio Capricorn and Taurus are my matches..
Virgo, currently pursuing a relationship with an Aquarius. Glad that incompatible signs are not always incompatible. Thanks for the info!
Im in Love with a Aquarious Man tht I been seeing 5 years now and cant get him to settle down with. By the way Iam a Virgo Woman. Its like I hve to chase after him and call him when he finally sees me its like weejs go by before I can see him again. In the beginning me and him couldnt stay away from eachother he said he loved me I found out he was living with a woman for past 12years! Their not together nomore dont knw why he wont give me a try??
I am a Virgo woman and was in a relationship with an Aquarius man for a year and a half when he decided to walk out on our relationship just a week before he said he knew that he belong here with me. Best relationships I ever had was with Aquarius men but they need variaty in their life and tend to have a lot of relationships.
Virgo girl with a aquarious man for 9.5 years, he cheated on me the moment we got pregnant Up until 8 months before I left him. We are divorced now, he is a narrsasist!
Yes! My son married an Aquarious woman and she fit the narrsasist profile to a “T”!
One Aquarius man being a narcissist doesn’t mean all Aquarians are narcissists. It’s a personality disorder that has nothing to do with zodiac signs.
I was married 25 years to an Aquarius and they’re a horrible match for Virgo, especially Virgo women. If I had a Virgo child I would do my best to dissuade them from involvement with Aquarius. They don’t do love or mutual reciprocity well. Emotions are not really in their wheelhouse. Don’t chase him or any man for that matter. Men are natural “chasers” if one is not chasing you it means he’s not really interested. He’ll sleep with you or accept whatever you willingly offer but he’s not into you. You deserve better 🙂
Totally agree
Agree
My ex is an Aquarius ♒️,and the guy I like is an Aquarius ♒️ . I’m a Virgo ♍️
I’m a Virgo woman and married to an Aquarius for 19 years. Now thinking of divorce; I’ve had it with his self absorption and egotism.
No stay away from them aquarius woman. Im.a virgo man and was married for 7 years and together for 13 with an aquarius woman. It’s the worst relationship ever in my life. It’s not good for any virgo aquarius relationship and it will.not ever last at all. They are very controlling and manipulative. Think they know it all. Stay away. Trust me. We have 2 children together. She went off with another man and had another child after we divorced of course but was with him before we divorce and now she wants me back and not with him anymore or in the child’s life.
I need a virgo,i once had a relationship w one. And it was handsndown the best!!
I’m a Virgo woman!
Im a virgo and i just can’t find the right man seems they all are just wrong lol u found out that Aquarius is the worst
Exactly
Yes this is very true on the experience I’ve had on past relationships I am with a Virgo now and we are a great match and so much alike we have a lot in common with each other Wich I great….
I am Virgo and Needs A Gemini Or Another Virgo for marriage..
Here I am Maryanne
I think the best match for virgo’s is nobody
I’m a Virgo woman
Virgo with Aquarius man for nine years. Still very much in love. We get along very well. It’s too easy. Was originally concerned when I looked into the horoscope predictions. It’s working!!
good for you! 😀
I’m a Virgo woman!! True Virgo!
I’m a Virgo Man. Best relationship i ever had was with a Virgo woman . I am definitely looking for a virgo woman to start a meaningful relationship with. (nickotey@icloud.com)
Lol, qas with a virgo and looking for another? So what happened to the first one?
Virgo with Aquarius man for 25 years and 3 wonderful children. He left us 5 years ago for someone else with 4 children and has had another 2 with her.He texted to remind me last month it would have been our 30th Anniversary!
Decided to stay away from Aquarians from now on.
January Aquarius are the worst
Yep they are.
I’m a Leo and a Bisexual but I’m in love with my best friend and she is a virgo. Thanks for the info!
I’m a bisexual Virgo
I’m also a bisexual Virgo. We out here! 🙂
I am a Virgo woman and was married to a Sagittarius man for 32 yrs who walked out on me, left me broke when he found out I was very ill and could no longer be fun to be with. Super shallow, self absorbed greedy, & a good time Charlie our whole marriage. He was very abusive, jealous and his friends always came first. I had a good friend exactly same, she was Virgo, ex was a Sag.
Omg my ex fiancé was sag. Broke up with him because the relationship started to become exactly his you just described when we moved in together. Never again! I’m sure it would have ended with the exact same issues.
I’m a female Virgo, and my father is a Sag, and so was an ex of mines a while back. My father has 10 kids, 4 baby mothers, and he has cheated on every one he has ever proclaimed to love + he has never really cared for me. As for one of my ex’s who was also a Sag: he came off as single and even claimed such. He moved me into a trailer with no furniture and he never came home to see me. He also turned out to have 4 kids and a baby mother who was looking for him. HE also was using her car to take me around. They are selfish and are not loyal (in my experience).
I’m a Virgo & my ex boyfriend was a sag. He was like u said & it’s all about him, flirts with women, friends r 1st over me, ignores me, very controlling, no compassion or empathy either.
I totally Agree with you on the Marriage of a Sagitarious. I am a Virgo Woman; The one I was married to was Also Jealious, Abusive & I couldnt never do anything right in his Eyes
I’m a sag women and have been with my virgo man for 5 years now( definitely short compared to some of your guys relationships) and we’ve been great and have never once thought about leaving for any reason. I’ve dated other virgos who have walked out on me like your ex’s. I don’t think its a sagittarius thing,just a guy problem .
I am virgo married to sagittaruis 20 years. Also walked out when I lost my job and had a stroke. Always been a cheater, self absorbed and only ever took care of himself.
I am a Taurus woman who is in love with a virgo man. He is the best relationship I’ve been in. Every day & everything we do is exciting because I’m with him. I’m wondering if being both earth signs has something to do with it.
I Am a Taurus Woman Who Once Was in A Relationship with a Virgo Man. He was my first, true and real Love. We went our separate ways for some unseen circumstances. Now we are trying to rekindle our Love after many Years dating other people which didn’t work out, it seems like we are meant for each other and would like to give it a try once more.
i’m also a taurus woman who’s falling in love with my virgo man. as of now we have this kind of LDR for just 2 months cause his working as a soldier .. . he keeps on calling and texting me despite of his hectic schedule,….his kind of sweet & used to worry a lot!.. his quiet different from other virgo’s ive known before.. he really wants to marry me but i’m scared to decide cause we have different religion his a muslim and i’m christian.. besides he also married before with this virgo woman he keep on saying that i’m really different compared to his wife besides from being sweet ,. he said .. i also cared a lot and even thou im tired i still have time to cooked some meals for him … we both love cooking while listening some musics.. he always helping me also ,we’re liked bestfriends & lovers at the the same..
Im a virgo woman in love with a pisces man. We have a very strong respect for each other. Very caring to each others needs. We reach out and enjoy each others friends and share each others interests. Blending our worlds is how we live day to day. Conflict is no issue i think it means too much to us to let go of the little stuff. I certainly understand his past has been a challenge for him to prove himself, being deaf. I see hes already done that. Hes achieved by sheer determination and strength of character. This as my partners foundation will carry us through any thing up ahead.
I needed to feel loved and appreciated, its all I was looking for. I found this and more, hes my hero in life and love I
look up to him and give him my all.
We are truely happy.
I am a Virgo Woman ,who is in love with a Pisces Man,who has been for years,I meet him when I was very young,had a child by him,who is grown now,we stopped seeing each other when he was 1 year old.Got back together,when I reach out to him this year when “our” son was very ill, Start seeing each other,getting along great(I thought) told me one week before my birthday that he was not feeling me,and that we could be friends,and that he still will keep in contact with me and my son. Hurt ,sad but I know that it was’nt meant to be,I will always love him,not because he’s my son’s dad.
I am learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me.
Im a virgo woman that has always been drawn to libra men my whole life. Currently with one right now been together for 2 years and just had a baby. Best relationship ive ever had.. Very loyal man.
I am a libra woman having a child with a Virgo man He is hands down the best man yet I’ve ever opened my heart to but we are taking things slow and he is not abandoning me or my children prayers we work out in my heart that’s what I want is to give him my all and be His forever for however long I can. We share a lot of the same goals and likes he is earth I am air our baby girl is due October as well and we are ten years apart
I’m very happy for you. I’m virgo and was smitten by a Libra, she meant the world to me. I didn’t pursue because we’re 13 years apart. I would love a baby girl in October as well! You’ll always have my blessing.
Henry— If there’s a connection, and it is meant to be, your energies will be drawn together someday. Don’t give up. The universe has a funny way of stepping in at the least-expected moment. Best of luck to you.
I am a 62 year old Virgo man getting ready to start dating a 68 year old Pisces woman. I am not the typical Virgo because I have done a full chart on me. My ascendant is Scorpio. I have been with most other signs and honestly it is the person and not the sign, however there are still generalities from their sun sign. Any advice on wooing her would be appreciated. Take care all and NAMASTE.
I am a 59 year old Virgo man. Yes, I married an Aries woman 28 years ago. Interestingly, she has Moon in Virgo and I have in Aries. Both have Jupiter in Scorpio. May be, these celestial configurations are the reason for our compatability.
I am a Virgo man of 59 years married to an Aries woman 28 years ago. Interestingly I have Moon in Aries and she, in Virgo with both of our Jupiters in Scorpio. So, even if you are “supposed” to be “incompatible” per these broad studies and still if you both are inseparable, then you may conclude that other celestial factors are overriding this broad guideline.
Ive been married to a Virgo man for 4 years being a Taurus woman an having 2 babys i haven’t had any problems other then me being stubborn but is expected from my sign hes the best dad very hardworking i couldn’t think of being with any better sign
I am a Virgo woman and have been married to a Leo man for 28.5 years. The first 14 years were extremely hard and very volatile. The last 14.5 have been a blessing. We get along so wonderfully and don’t even argue. We disagree from time to time but that’s about it. We enjoy our time together and miss each other when we are apart. I can’t imagine my life without him. He keeps me laughing all the time.
Virgo ♍ woman and I’m entangled with an Aquarius ♒ man. I went through a lot of heartache in the beginning and there was miss understandings of all sorts of things but I can say it’s been a rough journey to make it to 11yrs. Trust me if u don’t have the patience don’t waste your time but if you’re serious and determined and in love with this sign the very first thing to do is PRAY EVERY MINUTE OF THE HOUR, NIGHT AND DAY FOR THAT INDIVIDUAL BECAUSE U WILL HAVE DAYS WHEN YOU’RE SO EXHAUSTED THAT YOU’D FLIP TO THE OTHER VIRGO NO ONE WANTS TO MEET OKAY! And secondly find things to do together very often. Be a friend first then a wife but both equally important. TRAVEL TRAVEL TRAVEL is a must because this sign needs excitement. AND THE BEDROOM virgos you have to let your sex demon out but be careful not to drive him crazy in there because you might catch an argument when you want your space or he might even bug you to the point of attachment or being to needy. He will say he’s done and then come back to say you were the best woman I ever had that truly loved me blazay blazay boo hoo the typical crap they say when they realized and run back home with their tails between their legs that this Virgo woman loved me and I was too childish to see it ( after 6 tries). But trust me don’t even worry about when they wonder they will come right back because they need to be brought to reality. Just like a stubborn child but this is my stupid advice also experience so take it or leave it. Not everyone would have the same experience I did but loyalty and crazy love kept me going and the arguments is where we grew closer. I don’t know but it just happened that way but both of you have to want each other.
I’m a Virgo woman in a relationship with a Scorpio, although we have different signs our stories are very similar. Thank you for letting me know I’m not alone & not crazy for staying.
I am a virgo man married a sagittarius weman. We been married two years. She has cheated on me four times, and keep on talking on messager to men. She saids she wants to try working on our marriage but never dose, she never thinks about me or my feelings, we make love when we do, not very often, she only thinks about her needs. When she is done ,she is done even if I am not. She is self center, selfish ,conceded. I have to tell her she is beautiful so many times a day, or she’ll cheat on me on line.
That’s Messed Up! Im a Virgo Woman & Have Never Cheated When I was in a Relationship with AnyOne..
I am virgo man, married for 4 years to an Aries woman.
At the begining of our relationship things were ok, then rapidly things went on fire, we argued about my jealousy often. We argue about everything now. I regret my existince now as I love her and in the same time I hate her. We are at the edge of the marriage now and I feel its just not meant to be with an aries woman.
I am a Virgo woman. My father is a Virgo also and mother an Aries not a good match at all. Don’t regret your existence be optimistic – life will go on afterwards and you’ll be happy again!!
I’m a virgo woman and I married a Taurus male. Together for almost 10 years but now divorcing.
Im a virgo boy and i love this according to one research that i read today Taurus is best for virgo so….
I am a virgo girl and I think Capricorn is the best match
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Well.. ☺ im a woman Virgo and I’m with a Gemini and has been for the last 7 year’s im getting married . Once u get to really know your partner and who they really are determines a lot .But as far as he and him he’s loving understanding compassionate prays with us in thankful .. And I’ve learned it doesn’t matter who u love or were u find it if it’s true it’s true
Congrats Virgo Lady with your Gemini man I was married to a wonderful Gemini man for 12 years before he was murdered in 2016 Life will never be dull with your Gemini man and my husband and I also prayed together! Enjoy your Love! Happy Thanksgiving!
I m a GEMENI MEN AND MY LOVER IS VIRGO pray for us we shall get married soon !
I’m a virgo!!!
I’m a Virgo woman in love with a Gemini man it’s been a bumpy first year but he’s like my best friend and can always make me smile and laugh no matter what
I’m a Virgo woman married to an Aries man for 15yrs. He’s the love of my life. Even though we are complete opposite we compliment each other. Where I fall short he compensates.
I’m a Virgo Man. Dated a Virgo WOman and it was perfect just went our separate ways. Ended up marrying an Aquarius and it’s not compatible at all.
i am a Virgo man and I am not interested about marriage or dating, NEVER EVER!
I am a true virgo
Virgo male, and I love aries women hahaha. Kinda funny turn of events….but they’re just adorable. They try to be tough all the time but they’re all just super soft goeyness who just wanna be held.
>.<
I am Aries and with a Saggi he is abusive af….two Virgos are interested in me…but I am scared knowing we are not compatible….but I know Virgos adore Aries folks
As a Virgo man Aries woman always draw a smile on my face, they are crazy in a good way.on the other hand , Aries men annoy the hell out of me!
Got it in one Gabriel! Aries woman here, it’s nice to be understood for once.
I am a aries and my partner is virgo and seriously be always ends it up fighting but in another way we love each other a lot, it’s a love hate relationship
I am aries and my partner is virgo.things were good in the beginning and slowly he was yelling and blaming me for very thing s.we are apart now but still we love each other a lot.
Wow…Nobody mentions Scorpio.
Ive been in love with a Scorpio man for 5 years. We are very close. We both share a Taurus moon(Moon is how you emote) and a Scorpio Venus (Venus is how to love and relate).
Its been rough but I stuck by him while he was struggling. We get along very well We have similar outlooks, values and tastes but it apparently doesnt matter. but he likes his women sporty and petite. Which I am not. Very sad
What about a cancer would a virgo and cancer be compatible
Am a cancer would like to date a virgo do yall think it would work out
I’m ecstatic! About to marry a Virgo man and I’m a Virgo. I think we’re soulmates!
Same here!
Am Virgo man,seriously looking for a Virgo woman of 25-35 yrs. mailcollino569@gmail.com
Hi, my name is Gage and I am a Sagittarius man and I am totally in love with a virgo transgender woman. Head over heels in love. I have Virgo rising sign so I hope that makes up for any Astrological deficit.
We live in S.E. Asia and plan on going to Australia to get married next year. I gave up a heterosexual engagement to a beautiful Chinese/Thai woman for my gal, so I know this is not some flirtation. Any thoughts as to compatibility. I am in my early 60’s now, so I am not a butterfly. Thanks
I am a Sag man and head over heels in love with a Virgo Transgender woman. She is everything I desire for my life. My rising sign is Virgo so I hope that can transcend any incompatibility issues. Also, I have Jupiter in Scorpio.
I would appreciate any thoughts and insights.
I m a virgo women. Pisces man likes me alot and i like tauras man. Really confused woth whom i should go.
My husband is a Libra, he just missed the cutoff to be a Virgo haha. I’m 27 he’s 28 and we’ve been together for 10 years, married for going on eight. He’s very relaxed and doesn’t stay angry for long, so that really helps when I go into my “Everything is wrong!” phases and start stressing over the house not being clean enough, or everyday life. He’s says I have no chill, which, frankly, describes me perfectly haha.
I am a Virgo woman been with a Cancer man for the last past 5 1/2 years. It’s been hard, but we are still together. Just had our 4th baby last night, 11/16/18
This was disappointing to me. I feel like I can’t trust it because I already can’t relate to any of the descriptions of Virgo. I know we’re supposed to be practical, cautious, organized, etc., but I’m overemotional, very impractical, spontaneous, and a complete mess literally and figuratively. Sick of not being able to relate to anything astrological because it puts us into tiny boxes I don’t even sort of fit into.
You should pull you astrological chat (google) to see where your planets align. I had a friend read my chart and many of my planets were in Sagittarius, which explained why I can be impulsive and why fire signs and I seem to have a lot in common.
Totally agree. I’m a messy, emotional and disorganised virgo female. I don’t fit the virgo profile at all. Had a wonderful but difficult Piscean for 14 years. Two years ago we moved from the depth of the countryside where it was just he and I to a town next to a pub. Not a good move when the piscean is an alcoholic. For the last two years, although we both know that too much had changed – we just couldn’t seem to let each other go.
Two weeks ago he told me that he had met someone else. My heart is broken. Totally devastated.
I’m a Cancer woman been with a Virgo male since I was 12 it will be going on 12 years on and off we have 3 kids and one that’s due next month. He has a child with someone else she is 8 because he messed around. It has been really hard and he has put me through so much hell. I love him and I want to marry him because I do believe good in people and he has changed alot as far as messing around with other females. I just don’t know if marriage is the right thing for us or if we should even be together period it’s been very toxic over the past few years. We were doing great from 2016 till the end of last year and beginning of this year when he slept around again but hasn’t since then.
I am a scorpio woman madly in love with a Virgo man, but although he says I am his needle in the haystack woman he has been looking for all his life, he decided to move to another state. Now we see each other when we can and correspond in between. Really wonder just exactly I mean to him. Ready to just walk away.
I am a virgo women that has beed seeing a virgo man for over 2 years and it has been a long distance relationhsip, on christmas morning first thing he broke up with me and then 4 days later he called me acting like everything was fine and wanted me to come see him but since i have found out i am was oen of many different girlfriends hes had since we beed dating.
I am a Scorpio woman about to marry my Virgo man:)) since day one we have had an intense love and emotional bond. He says it was love at first sight and loves to tell the story to anyone who’ll listen haha I have never wanted to ravish someone while also smothering them to death with a pillow!! I love him beyond words but he drives me BANANAS! All in all we are each other’s biggest fans and I just can’t wait to say I do! ♏️❤️♍️
2+yrs*
I’m a Virgo woman & have a Scorpio man our love is definitely a deep spiritual connection but also deep on so many levels. He is my best friend and we have been together a little over 2 years. We have had our share of ups & down but through it all grew a stronger bond & love for each other. It’s Unbreakable..we are soulmates. Happy to know there are other Scorpio/Virgo relationships. Best wishes to you & yours
This is all not true.
I’m a Virgo woman, I’ve been married to 2 cancer men ending in divorce.
I’m now married to an Aquarian man why? All of the above comments are true. Self absorbed, selfish, womaniser, control freak and much much more.
Because of my failed marriages I really thought it was me, so I tried to be more tolerant and change. I wish I had run xx I’m in the process of trying to sort out my life to move on.
To all Virgo woman stay away from Aquarian’s born especially in January.
They should come with a health warning ⚠️
I am a Virgo woman and I am in a relationship with a Taurus man. Is the compatibility a positive in case of marriage?
February Aquarius man my mother is a Virgo and was married to a January Aqaurius man and it was the worst for her. He was an abusive womanizing jerk. I’ve always been a one woman man. Might be due to the way he treated her. At any rate I dated a Virgo and she was a sweety. We were together 4 years but she couldn’t be faithful. Aquarius people if nothing else are very logical almost to a fault. Biggest problem I learned in our relationship is that a virgo and an Aquarius just love differently. To an Aquarius a Virgo is all heart and feelings which is all well and good but for us it never stops. Theres no freedom in it and it feels stifling after a while. To a virgo I’m sure we’re aloof arrogant horses behinds or almost robotic with our emotions. Its flip sides of the same coin. Our thoughts often supercede our feelings. Its hard to make it work.
I am a virgo woman and was married to a cancer man didn’t work out
I married a Tartarus 21 years had 5 babies together! We have been together for 23 years, stronger than ever! I’m a Virgo women!
I am a virgo woman.
my most “out of this world” relationship was with a scorpio man. With him I had felt things I never knew I could and never knew I needed. He was a great balance of calmness(just like me), observation(noticed the details just like I did), and intense passion (something I do not have as a virgo, but really do need). Till today I believe that we were true soul mates, but I had to leave (extremely hard break-up) due to his dark past which involved hardcore drugs. After our break-up, he began to self destruct with drugs…..dark times for everyone.
When I was younger I had a virgo man in my life the I was obsessed with. It was great to have so much in common, but after being with a man (scorpio) that can be extremely passionate, I understand that I could never be with a non passionate man again (virgo). recently I tried dating a different virgo man, but after being with a scorpio, now I feel like I was dating my self, we agreed on many aspects of everyday life, but he could not give me anything that I could not give my self, emotionally I felt as if I was lacking something. something that me or any other virgo that is just like me, can’t give.
Now, a few years after my breakup with my scorpio man, I realize that the only men that can provoke emotion in me are passionate men. I am attracted to a leo man. This leo man is the most passionate man I have ever encountered (somewhat aggressively passionate, in every aspect of his essence). I highly dislike his arrogance and proud nature and need to be in-charge of every one in the group……but I feel a high sexual attraction towards him for the past 2 years. Me, virgo woman, and leo man, are so different and this difference both excites me (interests me), and also doesn’t give me enough common ground o feel like at home and as a unit.
My scorpio man had enough similarities in views and other elements of life, in-order for me to feel as if we are a unit and to feel at home and as if we are a part of each other. but we had enough differences to be intrigued by each other and arise great emotions and feelings, and give the other what the other can not give themselves.
I believe that a really good relationship is like 2 perfectly fitting puzzle pieces; there needs to be strait edges that are perfectly alined with each other, and also there needs to be areas where they fill-in each others gaps(missing areas). There are no perfect people, which means we all do have those gaps. When we choose people that are a copy and paste of ourselves, we aline the strait edges of the puzzle pieces but do not get to fill-in the missing areas, we feel safe but not truly as a whole. When we choose someone who is very very different from us, we fill in some of the missing areas, but the strait edges do not aline, and although we feel new great feelings we never knew we were capable of feeling, we do not feel at home and as one unit.
There must be a balance of similarities and differences.
The is my experience with a virgo man #1, scorpio man, leo man, virgo man#2.
How do you deal when you are in the Cusp? In the beginning or end of the Cusp?
I am Virgo man got disappointed by Gemini woman..but all in all keep ending up with other Geminis.. really need a Virgo woman between 25 to 32.. goldengate081014@gmail.com
Interesting. Virgo man here I met a Virgo woman and she is like my soulmate. I have never met anyone so compatible. It’s scary. But I don’t think she sees it, which is surprising because Virgos are supposed to be so intuitive. Or else she’s denying it. But I worry because what makes us so alike could separate us. Then I met an Aries woman online. It hasn’t gone anywhere but I wonder if I’m wasting my time because we are supposedly so different.
I’m a Leo with a virgo and our biggest problem is he wants to control everything and his constant criticism and fussing constantly. I do everything I can to make him happy. He is getting better with the criticism and fussing but their does not have to be a argument everytime he does not agree but our views are mostly the same. I feel entrapped by him and need some freeddom or I will leave him and he said that I’m the best woman he ever had, so why try to entrap and control me so severely. By the way I’m a Leo- August 4th and he is – Virgo 20th of September
Virgo men need to stop being so controlling that shit is a headache and so argumentative. I don’t care how much you provide nobody wants to be bothered with continuous drama kings. Libra are very easy to live with and to get alone with. If you find so many things wrong with a person don’t be with them but stay and try to fuss them into what you want them to be is insane
It seems like you just got your heart broke by a Virgo man. You must have, if you’re able to devote so much time to go on a random website and reply to every comment on how awful Virgos are. Maybe just stay away from Virgo men and move right along??? I get it. I don’t particularly care for Virgos as romantic partners myself (I’m a Virgo). They make much better friends. But still. Why devote your life to flaming Virgos on random websites? Go to a spa and focus on some self care and find you a lovely Libra, or something. Jeez.
I’ve never understood why Virgos are allegedly the best mates for Virgos. My relationships with Virgo men always always always slowly morph into friendship. I could never see myself marrying one, unless we were doing it for tax purposes and more convenient “co-parenting.” We’d just end up being more like roommates who occasionally hookup rather than a couple. We’re just too much the same and everything becomes predictable and sort of… bland. Plus our flaws are not balanced out by the other partner because we have the same flaws and strengths. Not a good idea imho.
My best relationships have always been with Pisces men. I think the fact that they are the complete and total opposite of me balances me out. They keep me chill when I’m being too headstrong. I keep them rational when they’re being to day-dreamy. You know, things like that.
At the same time, it might be because many of the Pisces men I’ve dated share the same Moon sign as me: Capricorn. In all honesty, I think Moon signs are better for interpreting romantic compatibility. I usually only look at Sun signs for platonic relationship compatibility. Hence why I always turn into friends when I date Virgo men.
I am a Libra woman married to a Virgo man now for 19 years together 25 years. My husband is beyond thoughtful and considerate. Yes, My Virgo can be fussy and critical. The important thing is knowing he doesn’t mean anything bad by the criticism. I believe he consider’s he is just helping. So most times I just listen. I almost laugh about it when it drives me crazy like when he looks over my shoulder while I am cooking. 🙁
I know I drive him crazy with not making up my mind about just about anything…#NUTS!! but our relationship is strong.
I’m a 39 year old female Virgo. The first guy I dated was an Aquarius. It didn’t last. My soon to be ex-husband is an Aries. That relationship started off long distance (different states). It started off great till I became pregnant. Got pushed into the marriage (I knew he wasn’t the one but went along with it anyways). He is the laziest person I know. He blames his bipolar for his issues (he is on SSI). I recently started dating a Leo over the weekend. I met him around the time my soon to be ex-husband and I split up. Of all places to find him. It was while playing Pokémon go. Even though I just started a relationship, this is the first time in my life that I truly see a future with someone. Yes I am going to take my time introducing my son to him (soon to be ex-husband didn’t do that with g/f. Son met her the very first time they met).
Virgo and leo not a good match divorced
Virgo and Virgo to much a like that we need up separating and now just waiting for divorce
Not good
Virgo with Virgo to much alike and it’s just crazy relationship a lot of mind games we ended up separating
Thank you so much …..
IM SO LUCKY TO BE A VIRGO IN THIS BIRTH….
What’s a relationship like with a Virgo male? I am a Gemini female.
Is it exhausting? What is everyone’s experience?
TIA
I married and Aries and am very accepting of who he is. I think the issue comes down to what people can handle, my boss is also and Aries and is missing all the traits that drew me to love my husband. I am very critical of my boss because of his approach not aligning with principle & policy. Virgos are discerning in our view of the wold.
Virgo man (31) married to a sagittarius women (31) for 14 years now. As a typical Virgo man I failed her as a husband and was emotionally detached for years which lead her to cheat. In my opinion I don’t think this is a good match. The years have been difficult and I’m thinking divorce is around the corner. Sex is very unemotional and no passion, with us it’s just sex which is not what I crave. I work 16 hours a day for months at a time which she is alright with so that’s a plus.
VIRGO MEN ARE PLAYERS AND SWEET TALKERS. They just want to play games and mess with Virgo women’s hearts. Virgo women are sweet, sensitive, highly intelligent, and highly sexual and Virgo men know this. The women always end up with a broken heart because she is not used to this type of charm and attention and of course she is highly emotional, more so than the Virgo man. So of course in this love game the Virgo women lose and the Virgo men see it as another conquest. Virgo women are better off with a Scorpio man, he is emotional like her and open to sexuality and will help her open up instead of shaming her like a Virgo man would. We can make any man fall in love with us because they see how amazing we are don’t waste your time, energy, and love on him he’s not worth it. Virgo man will end up marrying a woman that has low self esteem and will always be there while he’s out breaking hearts and getting laid but in the end he will never truly be happy.
I agree to what you just said, I’m a Virgo currently dating a Virgo man, he is so good with his words and can easily mend me and make me do things I would never want. But my rational mind can see thru his BS and now I fight back coz I love him but I’m trying so hard to get away from him and it’s a war with my self. He is well read and smart, clever to a point still, every time he moves away with his phone I can tell that he is trying for other women. I caught him so many times checking out his ex’s profile and ignored like I didn’t see. But then comes the other sweet side of his that I’m so mesmerized with that everything else is blurred. It’s like I’m waiting for our relationship to fail on its own. I don’t seem to have what it takes to end it . Virgo Virgo good Match coz we understand each other without words but just ahead is a dead end coz they are players and don’t care who they hurt or what attachments they built. All it takes is just another pretty face who would treat them like shit and that would grab their attention enough to lose what they had with u.
Hi I am a male Virgo. Love, kindness, happiness, positiveness, care, respect and intelligence there could be more positives on the list. There’s other star signs of people that don’t seem to understand the proper Virgos ways. For me because I am a Virgo, Virgo is at the top of the table because if you’ve just read what I’ve said so far all that is what the world needs today. It’s the Cure to help, mend, heal and to diminish negativeness. The hard bit is the bit where some people don’t see to join in and become one as a family to make the world a better place. OK this doesn’t seem to be much about a relationship with someone but it’s Virgo power! I mean planet earth is my best Earth friend because it makes sure we got air to breath for another day, food, water etc and for that all living things within earth should treat our Earth friend with respect! It’s hard, there’s so many people that rely on burning fuel burning something toxic! Yep this is my Virgo and if you like what you’ve read then it’s easy for you be in a relationship with a Virgo
I’m a Virgo woman that was in love with a Virgo man. But he’s deceased now ,would very much like to meet a Virgo man. or someone who is really ready for something real , no games
I always end up with Gemini’s and they are always the shittiest people. Never met a Gemini guy that didn’t turn out to be trash, and a cheater.
– female Virgo
Typical Virgos, very loving individual but too critical. Addicted to small details that leads me astray most of the time. I broke up with my sweet Libra wife a couple of months ago n I so understand why…taking small useless details personal got me screwed by the system. I have a problem of moving on with my Life, n I so doubt that she will ever come back to Me. A short msg to all my virgo fellows. Everyone is perfect according to his/her on kind….let’s appreciate our partners the way they are, avoid to judge.
Aquarius male here. I was shortly involved with a very sweet and kind Virgo woman- though she couldn’t remain that way, and the reason was because I was a stumbling block to her double life. We met at work, she already had children by a few men before and a partner she was sharing a family with. The issue started when I fell for her too fast and was blind to her cheating. She cheated on her partner with me but she acted like I forced her.Anyways she actively took me into her home with her children and her Gemini partner. I paid for her bills and did things for her and her children just as if I was her husband, but I don’t know if that was a mistake on my part because it would mean that she used me. She said we were friends and that part I respected, but I deeply cared for her alot. She was actually the very first woman to take my hear, but she wasn’t the first to bring me in with messy drama. We had one big argument and I was an ass, but I would have stayed where I was before, which was alone, if she hadn’t been unfaithful to the person she was romantically involved with in the first place. ‘Til this day, I still hold a torch for her simply because I understand that good and kind people do crazy and senseless acts out of desperation sometimes. I know it’s crazy on my part to still think about her every night while laying in bed and want to hold her so she would know I am not someone she has to be afraid of. I tried many times to reach out to her, but she won’t listen to thing I say much or try understanding that we both had faults, but one thing for sure is that I am not a cheater. I have never even been in a exclusive and committed relationship, but I planned on being it with her for the long haul. Will she ever reach to me and forgive the past and start to reestablish communication again on her own or is this just me wanting something or someone so bad that I am driving myself crazy?Should I stop trying to reach out?
…..she was the first to take my Heart. (Sorry for the typo on my post above)
I’m a Virgo and I wish I had someone like you, I’m married to Sagittarius and have been married 28 years and I have been miserable for 28 years I absolutely hate him we are not compatible at all. He has cheated so many times and has another from cheating. He always put his friends first and at as if I’m nothing, he shows no compassion to me at all. I don’t know why I haven’t divorced him yet. I feel like I need him or I can’t make it on my on now that I’m disabled to work due to back problems
Virgo/Virgo is a match made in heaven, hard to find impossible to forget. No relationship is perfect but I would rather go through these relationship problems with another Virgo than with a different man. My ex before him was a Leo and never thought of having a family i thought that was as good as love got, boy was I wrong. I met my virgo a couple of years ago although I can honestly say I fell in love at first sight and I never believed in it, or horoscopes until now. The truth is I loved being with him the best feeling ever hands down everything we did together, I fell in love with every part of him I never knew someone could exist that would make me feel like this, sexually he was amazing too. I am thankful for him showing me love what it feels like, I know he’s my soulmate and in a different life we’d be together if we met sooner I know I’d fall in love with him again. Anyone involved with a Virgo is a lucky person stop criticizing so much. Hold your Virgo man right every night and love him like there’s no tomorrow he’s a real man, trust him, make him happy, have fun with him and let him make you happy, I would give anything to be with mine and grow with him I would never lay eyes on anyone else because i know how hard it is to find a real man. Im still here for him and always will be. I also never experienced heartache like I did with him the worse feeling in the world extremely painful. Still, I’ll always care for him and he’s shown me the same, there’s no way anyone can fake this type of bond, If i ever have kids, he’s the man I will tell my grandchildren about I’ll never forget about him.
I am a Virgo Woman and I was married to a Pisces (Man) for 20 years. I was MISERABLE with him because he was a liar and not sure of himself VERY JEALOUS!! My second husband was a Libra. I was married to him for 2 years. He became very cold and very lazy in bed and work. Very antisocial just a JERK!! I have dated a few different signs but at the moment no one has peeked my interest.
I’m a Virgo and my best relationship and current relationship is with a Scorpio. For some reason, every time I’ve been with a Cancer or Aquarius it’s been the worst. I guess everyone has their preferences. I love my Scorpio.
As a Virgo woman I’d like to comment that I’ve had several long term relationships, It all started with me dating a Virgo, my first love… the ups and downs are not just with zodiac, but maturity level. The ability to truly communicate with no fear is not given to Virgos at birth, it is learned with many experiences. My relationship with a Leo was slightly short lived, fast and good loving but burn out real quick. A cancer who was always there as a beloved friend, but we couldn’t get past much more than the friend stage, and the sex was not satisfying to me, he took control in the bed, and wanted the same thing repeatedly…boring, I did not feel empowered enough or love enough to marry them, but I am great friends with many cancers.
The Capricorn I dated was deeply damaged and rebounded onto me so I will judge by my own rising sign(capricorn) and my many capricorn friends that they may give you ups and downs but the love always feels worth the work,and if you can let capricorn be carefree and themselves you’ll have some magic together, they will make you feel like a kid sometimes and that’s a good thing in the right time! Don’t forget capricorn is also very serious, love to give with all their hearts to those they care about, & sensitive too, arguments with them need to be approached with utmost care, they tend to shut down if you get too blunt and bossy. Virgo plus Virgo can take a lot of work, someone always has to figure out the balance, especially in boundaries and roles. If you do find yourself a difficult stubborn virgo not happy with their life good luck trying to uplift them and give them the positive views they’ll likely have their blinders on and be deaf too, seek the Virgos already stable in themselves and secure without you. Some would think virgo plus virgo would be a wreck, and it can be if you let the balancing act fall. Virgo plus virgo has all the possible tools to work out, I think if their ready for each other and on the same page the journey is worth fighting for. This is my own personal views of course and others may have much better results, I think honestly the older the virgo and yourself the better chance of them working out for you probably due to life lessons learned and experience in handling situations with good communication. One must understand what good and bad communication is to even build a foundation to truly understanding each other without trying to change each other. I base most views off my experience of many young loves. I don’t need to ramble further on any other signs but one last one….
My end of all ends is the fabulous surprise of a Gemini man, we were good talkative friends and when we fell in love, he literally swept me off my feet. Romance was the best it had ever been, and I learned more than I thought was possible, and I still learn new things today which I absolutely have a steady thrist for. Gemini men I must praise deeply as no other man in my life ever backed me so much and empowered or believed in me and dared not to change me but also not fear to talk to me about the serious things many shy away from. Communication between us smoothed out over the years, some lows but ever so many more highs… I married this man and I am happiest I’ve ever been in my entire life. No relationship is going to be perfect, but the perfect person FOR YOU does exist. Sometimes when you least expect it….I never thought I’d be with another Gemini ( My first experience was a short bad one from a rebounder, but again, that person was young and immature. The one I am with now is so very different from the other.) Best wishes to everyone for a good life full of love, happiness & health.
I’m a Virgo woman that was in love with a Virgo man. But he’s deceased now ,would very much like to meet a Virgo man. or someone who is really ready for something real , no games